so i met this girl like 2 years ago and hadnt talked to her since. and she randomly added me on fb a couple days ago and texted me all day and she wanted a relationship so i said ok. Anyways everything was going great and she told me to ask her questions about herself.

her; sooo ask me questions what do u wanna know bout mee

me; um idk what to ask haha

her; wow ur bad at this gamee haha jk

me; ok hold on ill think of something

her; ok:)

so then i looked up styles EV routine and ran it on her

me; if u had to pick one thing u need to have in your life in order to feel like life was worth while what would that be

her; someone who completes the emptyness i have been feeling for so long after all the heart breaks

me: i hear ya. but how would u know when that emptiness has been filled

her ; When im totally and completely in love

me; Good answer


things kinda died down after that so im open to criticism as to what to do or if i did anything wrong or not. im new to this stuff so i could use some help.

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I am new too, but I would have turned that around on her and made her qualify herself a little and asked her why she was heartbroken ( or why the last guy didn't want her) and why she can’t fill that void herself-slight innuendo.
Then say something about how she should feel complete without someone else-False disqualifier- and how somebody else should just add to you.

This made me sad. Never use style's EV online . Well that's my opinion. It's really powerful when you do it in person simply because it has a powerful root in NLP. There's nothing wrong with how you used it, I just think it's better in person.

I'm kinda confused how this went down. She randomly added you and said she wants a relationship? No chit chat? It's kinda strange unless you guys are young.

Oh and take control of the conversation.

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thanks for the advice guys. Ya she just added me out of nowhere. we texted back and forth the whole day the next day and that night we was both on fb talking and i was like "change relationship stat?" and she said "how do i do it" and that was it. im 19 and shes about to be 18 so ya young people type thing. ya i figured that the ev routine was bad to do over text after i did it. Im just confused how this happened out of nowhere, i did absolutely no work.

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Hmmm it's okay though because the thing about style's EV is that it can be done with different things at different times. You can do it again later on when you really want to create an emotional connection.

The way this happened is kinda strange. I'm guessing you had a reason to tell her that you should both change your relationship status. And I'm guessing she bit easily kinda because of what she said.
She's looking to be seduced and to have her "Knight in shining amour". I'm guessing you were her choice for some reason. I mean that in a good way .

Maybe you said or did something that triggered that in her. You probably have high social value or maybe you're just an awesome guy. Feel free to do as you please man!

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Ya man shes a solid 8. Ive been a magician for years and she absolutely loves magicians so i guess it doesnt matter what i do she'll like me anyways. this will give me some opportunities to improve my game. when i was gaming her i thought 'this chick digs me...all i have to do is not say something stupid and im in' haha

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[quote="joker#13"]so i met this girl like 2 years ago and hadnt talked to her since. and she randomly added me on fb a couple days ago and texted me all day and she wanted a relationship so i said ok. Anyways everything was going great and she told me to ask her questions about herself.

her; sooo ask me questions what do u wanna know bout mee

me; um idk what to ask haha

her; wow ur bad at this gamee haha jk

me; ok hold on ill think of something

her; ok:)

so then i looked up styles EV routine and ran it on her

me; if u had to pick one thing u need to have in your life in order to feel like life was worth while what would that be

her; someone who completes the emptyness i have been feeling for so long after all the heart breaks

me: i hear ya. but how would u know when that emptiness has been filled

her ; When im totally and completely in love

me; Good answer :)


things kinda died down after that so im open to criticism as to what to do or if i did anything wrong or not. im new to this stuff so i could use some help.[/quote]

Hold on. You met a girl 2 years ago, she popped out of no where, said 'I want to be your girlfriend' and you said 'yes?'. How old are you, 14? How the hell can you suddenly be in a relationship with someone you haven't seen for two years...

This doesn't make any sense.

well she didnt say she wanted to be my girlfriend. She sent me a message on fb and i number closed. And we texted back and forth the next day and it was obvious she was into me so i popped the question. It may be immature in fact it is but she is an hb8 and shes coming to me...im not complaining.

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