Guys I had an interesting situation where I opened a girl that was standing a few feet away from me, and we spoke for a bit and then, it became clear that she couldn't hear me so I said come closer and she said no, if I came closer to her then I would just be jumping through her hoop and taking her shit tests, so it was funny...I literallly ended up speaking to her for a couple of minutes at that distance...and only near the end of the interaction when I tried to n-close her I walked up to her to give her the phone (and even then I did it in a way that I said "I have to see my friends now and I pretended they were to her direction so I moved closer to her, but without making it seem like I moved for her"

So if a girl does a shit test like doesn't want to come closer to you, once you have already opened from a distance...do you come closer and risk DLVing yourself or do you get her to come closer or do you just shout at each other OR finally do you say have a very nice day because if she's giving me shit tests that early there's no point ?

Im no pro at this, but Id try to get her to come closer, by finding something you have in common and then showing her you have a on your cell or a picture, w/e shell stay close from there. If that dosnt work then neg her. Something along the lines of "As fun as it is to yell at you from across the room I think you might enjoy the conversation more if you came a little closer."

If these dont work Id move on. Plenty of girls out there.

Talk louder.