Hey guys,

I recently went to do night game, and I'm new to the community so I am still dealing with handling rejection. I approached about 7 sets while out sarging and I got quite a negative reaction. The one thing I didn't know how to deal with...and I am often getting this is guys in the group that are being really complicated, let me give you an example from the night.

There's a 2 set which I open and start speaking to, it's going okay, then it turns to a 5 set when the other friends come, so it's 3 girls and 2 guys, and they said two of the girls are going out with two of the guys, so I went for the girl in the group that was not with any of the guys there. By the way, I did engage the whole group, including the guys and was friendly, then I say I'll do palm reading, but I can't do it now I have to see my friends; overall I get very positive reaction from this target, she was laughing, asking questions and kinoing me back. So I open other sets then come back - this is where it goes wrong: they are sitting down and I reapproach and say hows it going to the guys and the guys are like "good,good it's alright man you can go" (and he was gently pushing my belly telling me to leave), since I didn't know what to do in the moment, I didn't say anything, I went to the girl and said okay let's do palm reading and I asked the female friends, "can i steal your friend for a sec", then the friends say yes but the girl says that her food is here, okay fine, I'm back a third time and she's just like she doesn't want to speak anymore, I have no idea what on earth happened, but it was really annoying

So guys what do I do with guys that are being bastards, guys that tell you to leave, go away, guys you try be friendly to and ask questions to but are just being rude and ignoring you, do you...

a) ignore them - but won't that make you look like you're used to people treating you like crap and you accept it

b) do you say what is your problem ? in a serious, assertive/aggressive manner

c) or do you neg him in a jokey, but degrading way e.g. if he's ignoring you "does this guy speak english or should we get him an interpreter", if he's being rude "is that how you speak to your mother" or "have you got a stick inside your anal, because you're being really socially awkard"

d) or do you just beat the shit out of this guy(s)

from what i understand if the friend doesn't like you the target is less likely to like you, so what do you do if the target is being rude ??

Thanks

If I were you, I'd go with c because in various ways, that pertains more to having game. B and D are likely to backfire on you big time. Especially D because if you try to fight the guy, the girls in the group will just be the ones to call you a total jerk, and then as you feel bad about it then they're likely to ask "who's the jackass now". Trust me, I've had that happen to me once and it wasn't great. You could also try to ignore them but like you said, it could lead to them thinking that you're used to being talked to like that. I don't know how much this will help but its all I can think of right now. Seriously, just going with C might work in your favor and make the guys in the group act like total jerks.