Ok I think my problem is that I seek aproval & indicate interest too much n that leads to me starting strong being naturally alpha, having a sense of humour, & being real good at talking about sensitive subjects etc (comfort building). But somewhere along the line I sike myself out by wanting it too much... So my finish is never strong. The pattern I keep noticing is that, the lower value females weather it be cuz of looks or self esteem attract to me & I can handle them. But when the higher value ones come in the picture I start off killing it... I act real dominant and agressive n they love it I have them eating out of my hand.. But then not long from that my brain just cock blocks me. & I catch myself doing or saying shit that I knoooowwwww is bad game...

I think it's a control/insecurity issue.. Not sure how to fix it tho.

Yeah, I know were you're coming from! From what I've noticed MEN cannot be emotional. It sucks, cause we are people too, but you must never be on a women's couch, unless your banging her :p lol, but what I mean is you gotta be strong and never let the girl be your therapist. She's gonna open up to you which is fine, but dont go to her with problems, youre showing neediness and that's no good. If you're aware it happens, just stop it. If you catch yourself mid way through end it with a joke or a smile and show that you weren't actually serious, you're just a fun guy always having a fun time, she just happened to be there! :p

Stay Alpha!