My major sticking point has always been my energy level. How do you get out of that gutter? I discovered a new sticking point being a voice that stops me from having fun. I'm going to fix that. I'm learning some nlp so I'm pretty sure I can put that voice to good use .

When I'm out with friends I feel really low energy and it hurts my approaches and my value. You guys have tips on pumping up your energy and even feeding off other's energy? I've never been able to get this one.

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Fox

get new friends that have a higher energy level and motivate you instead of bring you down. music can also help get you in state.

N.O. Xplode or any N.O. products

Lots of my friends are high energy but I can't seem to keep up with them. I think I'll try music. What high energy songs you think work best?

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Fox

lol at N.O. explode get some caffeine and cocaine in your system while your at it haha

This song always gets me pumped:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yxhwyK9OJMI

i listen to loud, upbeat music when im the shower and getting ready to go out.

a few from my current shower playlist:
jenny was a friend of mine-killers
are you gonna be my girl- jet (title is coincidence lol)
billie jean- michael jackson
sleepy head- passion pit


not sure if your into hip hop/rap but if you are i can give you songs of that genre too

also, i do this for job interviews as well as when im going out for the night and i dont know if it has a name but i like to carry that high energy up to the point where i enter the bar or club by being very outgoing.

for example ill maintain that energy by talking to people around me that im out with, people in line, cab drivers, whoever. not sarging just being outgoing. this works really really well for me and i notice a huge difference in my confidence AND energy when i do this.

hope this works for you

Gimme everything you got guys! That video is crazy se7in.
Sidney I listen to pretty much anything. I guess I just don't get as much of the rush from being really outgoing anymore. I've performed on stage during my life so nerves aren't much to me anymore. Sadly a little AA sprouts up every now and then to bite me in the ass

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Fox

Im always mad full of energy but what i do if i am feeling a little low is i find something really positive to think about something that i get so exited about it makes me jumpy, it doesnt even have to be something real for example when you go out you can be exited about hooking up not only does this get u mentally prepared but also in your mind you are going to hook up and when you truelly beleive something it generally happens.

also like sidney said talk to people and generally be outgoing.

Try doing a small amount of exercise before you go out, maybe a couple of pushups sit ups get those endorphines running through you (just dont do so many you tire your self out)

and of course music