Anyone ever had a single statement made by a set which has compltly blown you out? Lately the same one has been continuanly blowing me out and it sucks!

The biggest game killer i have come across is a statement about my looks and age. I am 18 and have a babyface, but am reasomly tall.

The reason why this is the biggest game killer is, because when gaming older women it gets brought up and i get stuck on what to say.

An example of this was last night i opened up a 3 set in a club. They were about 22 - 23 Opener went well transisted too mid-game, isolated target and then changed location to the dance floor. Was going well was dancing and gunna go in for a kiss-close when she says too me "your too young, you make me feel like a paedophile." I responded with "ill give you two seconds too get other it. Ready! One (pause) two. You feel better now?" she responded with "not really."

This compltly blow me out, ended up with her friends showing up and me ejecting.

Any ideas or thoughts on what too say or what too do?

I had this problem for a while, and it was a huge game killer for me.

When a girl says you're too young, or not her type-or something of that nature she is setting the frame that she is the prize.

What I started doing was flipping the script- saying things like - "Yeah, you're practically a senior citizen. I'll hook you up with my grandma- I'm sure you can keep up with her."

This really helped out my game because it flipped the script and reframed the interaction as being the prize. More often than not girls want to be desired, regardless if it's by someone they are not initially attracted to. When you express that sort of objection they'll fight back against it and try to win your approval and the more they try the more invested they become in the interaction. Investment is huge because when you work at something you really get this attraction toward it.

Overall, when a question arises like you're not my type, or you're too young and you just roll with it- you're creating the frame that she's the prize, not you. Try to turn it around on her and be fun about it.

Hope that helps.

Agreed with Riott. For the age thing you can always say things like: I don’t relate to girls my age. They are just at a different place then I am and I find I have more in common with older women. Bla, bla, bla.

Or you can agree and neg. - Yeah, you are a little too old, but I thought I’d give you a chance. Maybe you’re cool.
Well, you are like 80, and the oldest person in here, so don’t discriminate against yourself. Age is just a number, right?

For the not my type, I like to say something like – Well thats cool, because you’re not my type either. Why, did you think I was hitting on you? I just came over to say hello and get to know you a little better. Then change the subject and continue as if you normally would.

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