My biggest problem is obsession. Whenever i have a great girl in my arms, i blow it by being too clingy. i really dont know how to not be this way, as im always thinking about her.

Any tips are appreciated, this is KILLING me. ive lost two 9's this way.

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"Um, I'm very important. I have many leather-bound books, and my apartment smells of rich mahogany."

Try gaming several girls at the time.

This way, your "clinginess" will spread onto many other girls - making it un-noticable.

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Main reason I found this community and got into PUA. I think this can only be fixed with practice and experience, but at least I am now actively acknowledging the problem and working to change my thought patterns

Stop dating chicks all together.

then work on your inner daemons. people "think" they "need" another person to feel whole when they have serious self esteem issues.

work it out, get councilling if you need. but sort it.

then you won't get clingy... because you know no matter what, your life will be fine without her/anyone else.

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If you want to know how to be successful with women, learn to obediance train your dog...

I agree.

You're clingy because you're afraid to lose the girl.

I used to be super clingy to girls, and it always drove them away. Even when I was making a conscious effort to not be needy and clingy it often happened one way or another. I began to date several girls at the same time, and when I got that abundance of good looking girls in my life I wasn't afraid to lose a girl. I realized that most of those girls I was afraid to lose had nothing on a lot of the new girls I was seeing regularly. I came to the realization that there's so many girls out there that even if there was an amazing one who got away- the odds are there is someone out there who will be better for you and will coexist with who you are as a person.

Try coming from a place of abundance, and understand there's always options.

Hope that helps.