What does a kiss-close mean? I'm having trouble wrapping my head around the concept about how some of you guys will report a 'k-close' and act as though you number closed. is it not that big of a deal to you?

in my head, a k-close is a pretty big thing, especially if you aren't drunk. i don't understand how you could k-close and continue on regular life, just keeping the girl as an option while still working on others.

some insight would be appreciated

As you touched on many people don't view kissing as a big thing. Some people grow up and it is a big deal to kiss to make out and to have sex. For others it becomes so common and casual that it's not that big of a deal. It's all just perspective, nature, nurture if you will that gives each person that view.

Personally, after spending a lot of time dating, being in long relationships, married, divorced, etc. Kissing to me is not that big of a deal in the dating world. It is a big step towards getting a girl more comfortable with you sure but it's not a big accomplishment in comparison to other things I've done. Then when you go out and can get kisses, make outs, or even sex nightly you become more numb to it.

Hope that helps explain it some.

Thanks fo the insightful reply.

I don't have much experience under my belt, so its still a relatively new thing to me

First off! JSMOOTH!!!! Welcome back!!!!!!

And I would like to comment on the post as well. A kissclose is just a kiss. People kiss as part of comfort building, not seduction. Some kiss and it means a lot and some just kiss and it doesnt mean anything at all. I dont think it is such a big thing, it is a milestone, you see how well you play but thats it. Until you build real connection with the girl nothing really matter. A numberclose means absolutely nothing...

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