hi guys.

a while ago i split up with my hb 9 gf, my mates said i was batting above my league.

Since i have lost a lot of confidence with girls, being ginger and a little bit to tall for my own good, however the last few weeks iv decided to stop moaning, iv got myself in the gym, iv played tennis my whole life so im fairly athletic, and i have been working on my tan.

The next stage of my plan on regaining my confidence, is that i want to sarge a hb 9 who is a life guard at the pool i train at, i have already started talking to the other people who work there to build some social proof, and to get used to approaching again.

I know feel i have done everything i can without approaching so im pretty pumped!

So heres the question how can i open her? im guessing the last thing i want to do is talk about her work, or the swimming, any ideas guys?

Best advice is to stop thinking about and just talk to her. She is just a girl, she won't expect a knight in shining armor. Just talk to her, see how the conversation goes and go with it.

I opened a lifeguard the other week and just commented on something she was wearing, that always works. Then the conversation is yours. Don't worry about what exactly you talk about, girls love attention and she'll be happy you said hi.

Good luck!