I never know how to handle questions like:

"Do you have a girlfriend?"

"What kinds of girls do you like?"

"Do you love me?"

And anything about me wanting to become her boyfriend, etc.

I'm not interested in a long term relationship, but I do want sex, so questions like this sometimes become trouble when I try to get a girl into bed. I wouldn't mind becoming fuck buddies with her, but if I say that I don't want a long-term relationship, it seems like a lot of the time I'll get rejected for sex at the last moment.

So should I just lie if necessary? Or is there a smooth way to answer questions like this?

I'm meeting a girl around my area tomorrow, so any tips would help a lot. Thanks!!

Personally, I NEVER lie to a woman... Especially when it comes to questions like this.

There are definitely artful ways to handle questions like these. Sometimes with humor and sometimes seriously.

I've been personally asked all of these questions in the past (or some variation thereof) and here are the best ways I've responded.

1) "Do you have a girlfriend?"

ANSWER: Look at her straight in the eye, give a coy smile and say "Why, are you interested?" Keep strong eye contact. Every girl I have ever asked that question to in that was has responded with a solid YES. There is no other reason a woman would ask this question.

2) "What kind of women are you interested in?"

ANSWER: "Super smart and super sexy ones"

3) "Do you love me?"

ANSWER: Again she is probably asking this because she has feelings for you or is falling in love with you herself. Be honest here or get curious about why she's asking.

4) If you are not interested in a LTR and she is pressing the subject or asking questions about that you should be straight with her.

Personally, how I avoid running into these kinds of problems is to be transparent with any girl I meet about what my intentions are... she knows if we hook up it will be a one time thing or a FB relationship, because I tell her. Some girls will be okay with this dynamic and some won't... you're sense of self worth shouldn't be dependent on her response.

If she isn't cool with a being an FB, you should simply say "I understand". Let her know you still want to have sex with her... let her know she still drives you nuts. Never stop owning your desires because she momentarily "rejects" you, but let her know you don't NEED sex from her, but you sure as hell WANT it.

Usually all women need is to FEEL your integrity around what you want and to know where you stand and they'll go along for the ride. They want those experiences just as much as you do.

Hope that helps a little.

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