I find what is really lacking in my game is sexual attraction.

Im short, 5 ft 6, a bit chubby, and the most Iv been described as is 'cute'. Never hot (or rarely).

What i really would like to know is how can I overcome the physical factor and still be able to turn women on sexually. I can get them interested, I can make them laugh and not to brag my game is pretty tight.

I find sexual is the only thing missing. How can I turn women on SEXUALLY. Most of my game revolves around cocky funny and I usually get the Kiss or number close, but I still find Im lacking that sexuality to my game!!

thanks guys

TheMack

I find that while being cocky/funny is a great way to generate initial attraction you need to add a couple of more components to amp up sexual attraction and sexual tension.

A few things I would recommend:

For every couple of times you tease her playfully you need to express genuine interest in her. Ask her questions / qualify her... you need to make a connection with her.

During the interaction you should be leading physically... touching.
And you should be leading sexually... whispering things in her ear like "Damn you're sexy..."

If you're getting the kiss close consistently then you should be able to progress fairly easily.

I don't know if the majority of your closes are in club type settings, but if they are then you def. need to be isolating and being sexual.

Ultimately if you want to attract a woman sexually then you need to just BE sexual.

If you have personal physical hang ups like being short and chubby, you could be avoiding being sexual and unconsciously sabotaging yourself...

You can't do much about your height, but hit the gym if you feel like you could improve your body image, it might give you the confidence you need to start leading your interactions toward a more sexual frame.

Hope that helps.

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In my experience, sexual attraction comes from a display of power and confidence. C&f is great if you want to separate yourself from the rest of the herd, but nothing turns a woman on like a guy that lives in his own reality, does not supplicate, and can handle 'any' situation with a cool and calm demeanor. Mystery and a hit of danger goes a long was as well.

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