Hi guys!

I am a big fan of the site, and since there are a lot of people who give great advice, I'd like to ask a question myself.

There's a girl in my grade that I'm interested in.
The problem is, she thinks I'm a total jerk.

What can I do to make her interested in me?

Thank you!

Stop thinking about her. I do not know your age, but when I was younger I was kinda in the same situation.. So when I went out of high school I forgot all about her. I worked my way up to be a manager for a year, while I moved out and got my own flat. Than I joined the army and started working out on daily basic. I bought a motorbike and did paracuting and bunch of other cool stuff. (NOTE: I did not do this for her or any other girls, but because I like the lifestyle and this is how I am enjoying life.) And suddenly a lot of us from high school meet up again - Who are all the girls interested in.. All the other guys who educated them on uni or the guy who is enjoying his life to the full?

That being said. It can be really hard to forget some girl you have feelings for and see everyday. But if you can do it, it will save you a LOT of trouble:)

Regards Fløde

The last sentence about the trouble is very true .
Seeing everyday is a pain when something goes wrong.

Thank you very much.

I'll try to stop thinking about her, but i get confronted with her everyday,
so it's hard. Any other advice?

Game her :- if she thinks you are jerk prove you are not, back in my school days when I was a true afc I had this a couple of times lol... they both forgave me for being a dick, There was this girl who I fancied for ages, we got on well for a bit, I fucked up big (long story short: first I stole her # from her bf phone... yeah fuckup #1, then I was very pissed off with someone else, she was just being friendly and asked me what was wrong and I had a go at her.... mistake #2), so anyway she thought I was dick and we didn’t talk for a year or so, but then we took the same optional class and she had to sit opposite me, for almost the first year of this 2 year class she thought I was a dick, but during the year and especially at the beginning of the second year she got to know me, by the end we shared stuff, talked, joked 1on1 (when we where spray painting just me and her outside), she gave me iois (well I didn’t realise at the time but looking back defo ioi's!) ultimately she forgave me for my being a dick, going back now I wish I had of had the balls to tell her how I felt or at least actually become friends.

Hope My Afc story offers some help