Hey guys, please help me out here,

A couple of weeks ago I spoke to HBroundface on msn, and we got into some sex talk. She told me she was still a virgin and basicly wanted to have sex with someone. So we agreed that she come to my place to watch a movie and see what happend. So she came by, and we did evertything except fuck, this wasnt because she didnt want it, but because of the time. We agreed we would do this te next time. So far so good ...
So last Friday I went to here place, expecting to get some action. But all she wanted to do was kiss. She told me that a few weeks ago a guy she made out with in a bar, pushed here into the bushes and tried to undress here. So told him no,and nothing further happend. She said she was really shocked by this, and that that was te reason she didnt want to have sex with me. She was sure she would regret it later. I tried talking to here and confincing here that she would not get any regrets. I tried kissing here and touching here to get here excited, but that had no succes. I really wanted to have sex with here, because in a week I am going to Spain for 7 monthes. ANY advice on how I could have confinced here to do it, or to even go to her bedroom ??????(we were still on the coutch). I never want this to happen again, because it sucks . And do you think this was the real reason she didnt want to do it??? (Looking back I should have fucked here the first time ). Please let me know.

Game on

I tell girls I will no have sex with them all the time. When you put that barrier between something like that it amps up the desire so much more. Girls want what they can't have.

In your situation I wouldn't of said anything about having sex with her. I'd even tease her a bit, saying something like, " I ain't that easy. I don't put out unless I'm wined and dined."

Of course, the delivery of a statement like that is very crucial.

Another way to overcome that last minute resistance you were having in the second encounter would be something of a freeze out. Just stop all physical actions. When you push too hard for something, and try to convince her it often will not work. Girls and their emotions outweigh any sort of logical reasons.

Hope that helps.