Somebody please answer me this....a girl you are talking to doesnt look in your eyes, she looking at the features on your face. Is that an IOI? I keep getting this and sometimes its very brief sometimes very long.

At this stage of selecting my target I kino escalate and lead into k-close. I got shut down last night...this girl was rubbing her ass on me, so i did the whole touching hands thing and said "you want to kiss me?" she said no, i said "i didnt say you could". Crappy situation but I cant figure out where I went wrong. ANY IDEAS???

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Sounds like you're having a problem telling whether a girl is attracted to you or not. I like IOIs, but lately I've been using qualifying statements and movement to get a read of how much attraction you have with a girl.

Use smaller qualifying statements like , "Are you adventurous?" and if she qualifies herself to that you can work your way up to something bigger like, "What else do you have going for you besides your looks. Chances are if she jumps through that last huge hoop she's attracted to you and it's just a matter of making a move.

Movement is huge because a girl will not move with you in a bar or club if she isn't attracted to you.


I like qualifying because it gives the girl a reason for why you like her- as well as it kinda help gage where you are in the interaction and what you should do next.

Hope that helps.