I've been trying to figure out what good, attractive Alpha male tendencies are when you're out in public, and I think I've come up with a pretty good list. If anyone can alter it, or tell me if I'm on the right track, I'd appreciate it!

1. No fidgeting (shaking your foot while sitting, etc.)
2. No shifty eyes
3. No quick movements
4. NEVER look away when you lock eyes with a girl (this one is hard for me, but I'm working on it...any tips?)
5. Observe your surroundings DISCREETLY. What do I mean by this? Don't constantly look around the room...to me, this shows neediness, as if you're looking for approval.
6. Hands OFF your face (no picking at it, touching it, tugging on your ear, etc....maybe the classic hand on chin is ok though, when you want to show boredom).
7. Posture (relaxed, confident...not too straight, but not slouchy either)
8. I've heard that men who are attractive to women utilize chairs, tables, etc. in different ways....for example, 'cool' guys will never sit in a chair the way you're supposed to...instead, they'll sit/lean against the arm, etc. etc.

What else can you guys contribute?

A good way to lock eye contact is by looking into the other persons right eye with your right eye. Old trick. You also don't want to look at someone strait on unless you know the reason you are doing it.

I find that slouching isn't good at all.

Also everything that's on the list that has no is wrong, time and place for everything. Unless that thing is fidgeting. LOL

You have a nice list here. But I'd like to see the reasons behind each one of the numbers. If you make the list with reasons as to why each thing is true then it might just make you a better man. Who knows, certainly I don't.

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