hello,

A sticking point of me, is the transition behind the opener,

does the transition always have to be something, that you notice about her?

And what kinds of transitions do you guys use?

thanks

i really wish someone would reply to this post because i think it is crucial to being able to get going with a girl.

I don't think it has to be anything about the girl but it could be about the surroundings or threads for example;

- The weather, if it is cold cut her off subtley through her reply to the opener and say "wow its really cold!! (sell it of course) then say something like "its your fault its cold" she says why? and you say "you could have turned the heating up." this came from adam lyon.

- Shop, if you are in a clothes store then say something like "wow that shirt is ugly" after cutting her off. If you are in a book store then mention something about the type of book isle you are in etc etc you get the point... use the surroundings.

- Thread opener, If you use an opinion opener then thread it with bits of personal info that might be of interest or DHV. For example you could use an opener and she states her opinion, then you could say "yea thats what I was thinking when I was out ______ (running today, doing yoga, at a scoober diving class)." could be anything really (DHV health), "thats what I was thinking when I was on the plane today" (DHV wealth or travel) and the list goes on...

I am new to the game and would like to learn more about these so it would be awesome if this topic could get more attention