Met her through a friend during a weekend that was designated for partying, but through it all we had exceptional convos and some real legit connection. A real break from PUA and we still hit it off. Now I'm sure she likes me, but just broke up with a BF (so keep that in mind.) I've gotten major IOI texts and a hint from the friend that she's real into me. The issue is I'm not an expert on the attempt to make this girl my actual GF. It will involve more calls/texts.. I'm pretty confident on the 'day 2' if/when that happens.

Just need some pointers- I would greatly appreciate it guys.
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To say it in 'model' form, you have built attraction, now you have to build confort without loosing that attraction.

In other words, don't become a pushover wuss: keep a healthy attitude about yourself and pursue her. Take your time, don't get dependent on the outcome (making her your GF). Just enjoy getting to know her more and getting her to know you more so *if* or *when* you two hit it off, you will hit if off for the right reasons. If not, no biggie, you gave it your best shot arnd there is more fish in the sea. In the mean time, keep the interaction you have with her playfull and enjoyable. Tease and flirt at will. Make her want you. Don't be a duchbag, but stay a man.

Makes sense? I hope it does and good luck.

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Good advice from TheJ. She likes you, be the guy she likes and got to know. Set up a day 2 as soon as you see fit.

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I was in a very similar situation this year. I fucked up and she is not my gf.

One thing you have to remember : She has come out of a relationship so right now she is going to want to have fun and be single for awhile.

What I did was wrong, I got sick and tired of playing the cat and mouse game and although I knew she wasnt ready, one night I got drunk and told her how I really felt her, I gave in, I lost the game. In essence that left her with a Hobsons choice, she knew she would be unfair and selfish, and this is what she said to me, if she lets things with us continue cuz she isnt ready to settle down.

If you have the cool, let things play out by themselves and if it is meant to be, it will. DO not pass up opportunities of banging other belles because if you do and dont end up with her, you will regret it.

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