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A Sticking Point or SP is an issue you CONSISTENTLY run into.
It is
NOT a point where you get stuck with ONE SPECIFIC GIRL.
A Sticking Point is:
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I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
A Sticking Point is NOT:
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I got LMR with this one girl! What do I do?
IT IS AGAINST THIS BOARD'S RULES TO POST THREADS ABOUT JUST ONE GIRL
If you have not already gone out and practiced enough to have a real Sticking Point from meeting an ABUNDANCE of women, YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO POST HERE.
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| Sparkster | PostPosted: Wed May 19, 2010 9:08 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun May 02, 2010 5:49 pm Posts: 7 | | Right so ive only been doing this for the last month and 2 weeks ago it went really well (to my standards anyway) all the sets i approached opened and had 2 kiss closes,but last saturday in a different town I went to a bar then a club and it went a bit wrong.
I opened a few sets in the bar but it was pretty loud, the one set of the three that did give a response looked at me like wtf is he on about answered and i made my excuses and walked off, the other two just walked off with a funny look on there faces. so i moved on to a club tried a few sets in a quiet area and pretty much got the same response one girl just put her hand up and walked off it was a little bit confidence knocking cant quite work out what went wrong tho I must have done something unless i just need to try an entirely different approach for that town. it was a quiet night and i had no social proof but i dont have any female friends to bring with me and i couldn't meet any on the night cos i couldn't hook any sets. I was from what i remember opening over the shoulder and smiling but i didn't even get a chance to speak.
can anyone give me any ideas that i could try out to see if i can even get a response?
Regards
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| GETINTHERENETO | PostPosted: Thu May 20, 2010 4:07 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Thu Apr 22, 2010 1:24 am Posts: 18 Yahoo Messenger: rock2thefullest@yahoo.com Location: El Paso, Tx | | Try using an opener about the good places to go in town because you just moved there and work your way from there. Also open the set by having a little more fun than they are. By showing your having a little more fun than they are you're more interesting than what they're talking about. Calibrate your energy level to where it's acceptable to them and you will bring them to match yours.
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| Sparkster | PostPosted: Thu May 20, 2010 8:29 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun May 02, 2010 5:49 pm Posts: 7 | | ah good point, didn't even consider the energy thing will try again this weekend.
Thanks
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| -Origin- | PostPosted: Fri May 21, 2010 2:09 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Tue Feb 09, 2010 8:28 am Posts: 12 | | Body language on the approach. Make sure you come in with a confident walk, good posture, and nice smile. If you do that, you can often open with, "Hi. You girls look fun. I thought I'd come chat."
Body language after the opener is important too. Hands down, no fidgeting, no quick movements.
If you can, get video of yourself doing a cold approach or a mock cold approach so you can see yourself. Few people know how they come off to others. If girls are blowing you out that hard, and you don't know why, it must be something in how you come off.
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