She is getting on my nerves. WHY??? Well cuz she is trying to define me all of the time.

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Last night we were talking about our old friends and a crush i once had. I told her that i saw her "my old crush Monica" and she was wearing wierd slippers and i laughed. They are friends with each other.

She replies telling me.
(old girlfriend, Helen) -Sounds to me you have feelings for her.

I smiled looked her in the eyes and said.
(Donehell) -No.

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A moment later....

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She tells me.
(old girlfriend, Helen) -Well you seem to be a bit ADD.

I just looked at her.
(Donehell) -got lots to do and nothing is happening.
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Later she asked me a philosofical question and i gave her an elaborate answer. She tells me..

(old girlfriend, Helen) -Seems to me you have been thinking alot her at your little place.

(Donehell) -I don´t think more than other people do.
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This goes on and on! She is trying to put me in an defensive stance! At the same time she is scoping if she is getting any reactions from me.

She on the other hand is a real succubus, doesn´t get affected neither reacts to anything. Always looking down on everyone. This is who she is and i want it to stop. How to put her in her place, any ideas?

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Use negs when she is NOT degrading you. If she does dis you, react in a way that surprises her OR don't react at all. If you choose the latter, make sure your bodylanguage and facial gestures comply. Always be willing to walk away.

But it really seems to me like she's into you and is teasing you (kind of negging you). Just keep your cool. If she knows it stirs an emotion in you, she'll keep doing it.

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Actually she is a powerfreak, she loves herself when she can get report from others.

Could you please explain what you mean with taking her by surprize!?

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-HAhahahHAHah! You Don't Know Where I've Been, Lou!