After a day 2, I took this girl home. She is a 21 year old from the local university, absolutely beautiful.
We were kissing for a while in the car, and I decided to escalate. I started rubbing her "area" and she was moaning like she was about to cum in about a minute. Then, when it seemed like she was about to cum, she holds my wrist as if telling me to stop. Problem is, she didn't move my hand, or tell me to stop she just held it! I wasn't like a clear sign for me to stop or keep going so that through me off like crazy!
Here's the kicker, after the heat dies down, she then told me very seriously that she had to ask me a few very important questions.
She asked me how long I had been sexually active, and how many people I had been with. I figured she was going with the "Do you check yourself?" approach, but she didn't. I asked her the same questions and she told me she wasn't...like at all! Apparantely she was a virgin. I'll admit I believe her cuz she didn't just say it to say it, she said it was just cuz she never felt comfortable enough to go all the way with someone. So by the end of it I didn't know what happened. Was that LMR, or was it her just holding on to me cuz she was about to cum?
I definately need help with this one guys!

Best wishes,
Chris Hart

Sounds like the second. Makes more sense.

Either that or you were nowhere near making her cum and she just wanted to stop before going further. In that case it's "sort of" LMR but not functionally...


Anyway, as far as getting past the virgin thing, (Assuming you still want to sleep with her, dunno if I would, but that's irrelevant,) just telling her that you don't wanna be the one to take her virginity and then giving her nothing at all is a pretty hard-hitting freeze out.

Keeps her mind there, and differentiates you from all the other guys that have tried to go all the way with her.

But you risk her taking that as a relief and it being the end of all sex.

But hey, you'll never get anything you can't do without, right?