Whenever I go out, I get a lot of numbers and more than half of these girls will pick up for me and continue conversation. A majority of these girls will be enthusiastic about hearing from me for the first week. After the first week, these girls lose attraction for some reason or another. This is making me really get down on myself and lose confidence.


I believe my problem deals with the frequency of how and how much I speak to girls I just meet. On average, I speak to a girl I meet once or twice a week. Every 3/4 times I speak to a girl, it will be via text or messaging.


A good example situation just happened to me recently:


'I met this girl about a month ago and we were getting pretty involved about two weeks after we met (no sex because she has early classes). She was an 8 (very arguably a 9 or 10). Around the third week, I just became really attracted to her and started talking to her about 4 or 5 times weekly, primarily via BBM. I think I started to overburden her and make her lose her attraction towards me. I brought this up in conversation and she did mention that I was distracting her. Now she doesn't seem as enthusiastic about seeing me.'


I would like any opinions/comments that you may have about the following, so I do not seem needy:

1. How often should I call or text a girl?
2. How many times should I be calling and how many times should I text her during the week?
3. Is there a time frame in advance you recommend for making plans?
4. Do you find making plans during weekdays or weekends better?
5. Any advice on the example situation I explained before?
6. Any other advice?


Thanks.