Hi everyone!!! This is my first post ever I got into this world after reading The Game,like many of us I think!!hahha.

Here I come with a problem with a girl I work with;here I expalin the situation:

-We already kissed once on the night out before I went away on holiday for 3 weeks.

-Due to some issue we couldnt get in touch during those 3 weeks

-When I got back from my holiday i realized she doesnt show as much interest for me as before,except for she wears eye makeup wich she didnt use to do before.

-I have been told by a collegue that she is seeing someone else wich I think it is true as she is always sending txt messages to someone.

-She told me she is going out tomorow night with a couple of girlfriends to the same night club where we kissed the night before I went away and she asked me if Iam going out too, of course I said to her that I dont know,maybe, to play with intrigue and curiosity and not to show much interest but of course I will go, i will turn up with a couple of friends of mine.


So what would u do in my situation?? What would you do to try to get her attention back???not just in the night club but while we are a twork???


pd:i live in a small village where there a re only 2 nightclubs where everybody goes on weekends thats why i can just turn up without saying anything to her first.


Hope someone could help me plesae!!!

c´mon guys need some help for tonight!!!!

ok, heres a lil advice, hope it helps!

I suggest talking to her for a short while, make sure all the girls in the group are interested, then just leave them and run game on a couple of sets of girls.... she'll see you and get jealous (she has already showed she fancies you).... make her jealous and she will chase you

go back a bit later, isolate her, and run something like gambler's subtle seduction

hope that helps

Right, thanks for the advice my friend,my idea was a bit similar but using her ugliest girlfriend instead of a random set of girls and also negging her a lil bit too so she would get massively jealous for a bit until I isolate her.

I will see how it goes and will let you know.

right so...here is what happened,i arrived to the club and didnt have to do anything,she was so drunk she jumped all all over me when she saw me!!lol

We didnt have sex,she went home afterwards,dont want her to think i am one of those guys who take advantage of drunk girls,dont want to play the game that way and also if possible I would like to start something with her, i like her.

So the problem now is that i dont know how to try to get to kiss her when we are at work,tonight we were left alone before locking up and wanted to start some kino scalation with her but didnt know what to do it was kind of like if my brain was blocked and didnt know what to do!!


I need some advice on how to kino scalate with her when we are alone!!!

Thanks

I suppose it depends on what vibe she is giving you... try the subtle seduction stuff with her that gambler's video shows, use that stuff on her all day (just sort of the body language stuff and the eye contact) how you look at her when u talk to her and stuff.... if ur gettin the feeling that she is into you.... why not just take the initiative and take her somewhere and just kiss her?

I know it sounds simple for me to just say it, but if u like this girl u need to make sure u have attracted her, and she wasnt just drunk. U should use the seduction stuff on her all day, hopefully she will be wanting you to kiss her when the two of u are alone.... or like i said, take her by surprise on her lunch or something, take her sumwhere secret and kiss her.... one thing u need to watch out for is that u dont get put in the friend zoned... u need to build the sexual tension at work

Yeah!! I did it!!we didnt kiss but it seems shes realy interested in me!!I played it all day,push her away in a playful way,grab her hand and say;OH!! is that a new watch??run over her pretending I didnt see her, grab her hand and say;wait Ill take that plate!! and a lot of eye contact,there is sexual tension!! I can tell!!

Thanks for the adivce my friend,Ill keep on trying and will let you know how t goes!!

pd:whenever I look at her when we speak i look at her mouth as if i wanted to kiss her and most of times she looks at my mouth back,is that a sign of atraction??

Thanks