Hey everyone!

I've been recieving heavy IOIs from an 8, and I am quite certain that I can manage to get her in bed. Problem arises that she seems to want to be in a relationship, which is not at all what I am aiming for. She seems to like sex very much, and she is definitely friend with benefits-material. Problem is that I don't know how to change her from wanting a relationship to being my friend with benefits. She's coming to my place on friday, and I have no idea of what to do.

Big thanks for your help
Oge Retla

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We're only here for one more night, scream it like you mean it.

If she does not agree on being your "friend with benefits", there aren't many options left for you. This is what you can do:

1. Get in a regular relationship with her. Obviously, you don't want that.
2. Stay friends with her. This results in: No sex for you. No relationship for her. So clearly, this won't satisfy any of you.
3. Move on to another set. This is clearly the best solution to this problem (if it occurs that is), since there will be a smaller chance of hurting her in the end, and a bigger chance of sex for you - with someone else.

As for when you talk to her: Keep in mind that women don't work through logics. They work through emotions. In other words - if she rejects your offer of becoming your "special friend", you should aim for changing her mood - not her mind.

Good luck.

How about this tactic that I have used before, escalate things up to the bedroom and the next morning call her and explain that you had a lot of fun last night, have a genuine conversation and then explain that you just can't go for the relationship. Only thing you could go for is an open one but explain that yous would still have great fun, going out to places, chilling out etc but you both will be able to go out, meet new people and experience new things. Explain that it's nothing wrong with her (because it isn't) you just want to live life to the fullest and you would prefer her doing the same rather than her tying herself up over you.
Haha at least she's human

I wish you best of luck man

Happy Gaming
AFCCoffee

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