My job up to this point has prevented me from keeping any relationships going for more than a couple of months. I manage a strip club, and have done so for the last 8 years. I don't like to date strippers, and every "normal" girl that I date usually gets so insecure about my job that they end up breaking things off after a couple of months. I'm always alpha, take a dominant role in the relationships, and everything else seems to go fine save for my job. I know that some guys would kill to have my problems, but it really chaps my ass, especially when I really like a girl. Is there anything I can do to help girls over their insecurity or should I just marry a stripper?

It should not be a problem. You are living in a world where the stripper kind of life is normal. You have a broader mind than most people. The fact that you have seen more than most is a strength.

Now the grass is always greener on the other side but seriously... Would you really want a normal girl "normal"? Do you think it would work out, you dealing with her insecurities and narrowminded way of seeing life.

I know what you are talking about man, I am myself moving on the more sexual part of life and have seen and accepted stuff that most people only dream about or find on the dirty internet pages they surf when everyone else is asleep. Hell, I even did a short fetish modelling a while ago.

There are girls out there that are non strippers but still open minded about what you do. They are not all innocent and narrow minded. I have a lot of friends that have come from sexual circles and gotten their girls to accept what they do for a living. It is all about not letting your personality become your work. Or the other way around. Dont let the role you play at work become who you are. Deep down inside you are also a regular guy, you just have a different lifestyle.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn