I wasnt sure where to put this so if this is the wrong part of forum please move to the appropriate place.

I was at college the other day and theres this HB8 who I've seen around a couple of times and have spoken to briefly in the library once or twice. The other day I bumped into her on my way out of the library and we started walking and talking etc just about random stuff.

I asked her if she was heading back to class and she said no she was heading to the bus station which is like 2-3 mile walk away, it was a nice day so I said to her "I'll walk you there" (which she didnt object to, i would have offered her a lift but thought walking would be better to try game her.)

Anyway we're walking down to the bus station and I tell her about the trip i've just booked to vegas and how I took a random trip to london a few weeks ago etc and got her to talk about her favourite holidays shes been on and if shes going away this summer etc. Along the way she kino'd me a couple of times and I reciprocated with kino myself. I think at this point she definetly views me as a kind of fun/crazy/random person (something she says she wishes she could be but isnt). She tells me how she's at college all day etc and works every weekend and this weekend is her first weekend off in 2 years. I ask her what she's doing with this very special weekend and she says "well my boyfriend says we'll go away for the weekend but it probably wont happen and I'll just end up staying in". So I'm just like "Well if it's your first weekend off in ages he should definetly take you away somewhere and do something real spontaneous" etc. We keep walking

We get to the town centre and she says she has to go check her work timetable so I'm just like sure lets go and she smiles and we walk to her work, I meet one of her work friends and as she goes to check her timetable I say I'll wait with her workfriend Amy so I stand and chat with Amy for a bit and just start kind of gaming her to. HB8 comes back and we head to the bus station and she keeps saying things like "your the most random person I've met", "your the most interesting guy I've ever met", blah blah blah etc. We get to the bus station and I say "how much is a bus ticket to (where she lives)" jokingly and that if I hadnt left my wallet at college I would be on the bus with her etc and we both laugh at it.

We go to her bus stop and while waiting on the bus we're talking about stuff and I'm wearing bracelets and she touches them saying I like this one a lot and I touch her necklaces and say this ones my favourite on you. As her bus pulls up I ask for her number and txt her while Im walking back to college and she txts back etc and after a couple txts I txt her saying "(random rubbish)....whats the plans for tonight?" to which she replies "Meant to be hanging out with the boyfriend, you?", I txt her back saying "never mind that you should be out doing something random, I'm training tonight so cant do anything random ". Conversation dies out after that.

Today in library she kinos me by touching the bandana i have tied around my wrist and later on when I've stolen this ridiculous hat from these girls in the art department I see her through the window of the library and knock and point to my hat with a big smile and make her laugh, I txt her later "like my sexy hat" and get no reply.

Sorry its this long Quick version below, any advice appreciated

Quick version: Meet HB8 at library walk her 3 miles to bus station, lots of kino between us, lots of laughs and good conversation, she mentions her boyfriend once while talking but gives me her number before she gets on bus, she mentions boyfriend once more while txting me from the bus.

I'm just wondering from this interaction what do some of these things mean? With the amount of kino she gave me plus the fact that she gave me her number does she just see me as the fun/crazy/random guy or as potentially something more? Is the txt she sent me about her being with her boyfriend that night like a defence saying Im not into you like that? Not txt her again today, whats my next best play?

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You're getting very into this girl, I hope you don't think about her too much. You do think about her a lot, don't you .

Either way, in my opinion since she has a bf the best approach is to lay your cards on the table then leave her. You've already supplicated to her so much by following her around everywhere, so she already knows your intentions (not least by the poor text game). You need to man up and go direct on her. I would just make your intentions clear - that you think she's a fun and interesting girl (say something more personal) and you'd love to take her out on a fun night/bang her/do something awesome with her, but since she's got a bf you can't, so call you when she's broken up with him.

The last line is critical. This is a tried and tested method. She may not call immediately, but in a couple of weeks when she's mulled over your tempting offer, there's a high chance. With these girls, you have to be able to lose them if you want to get them (something which may be hard with the amount you've invested).

As far as boyfriend destroyers go (and aside from NLP and hypnosis), checkout Straw man.

I like her quite a lot but dont think about her constantly since I'm already seeing another girl at the moment but I do like her and would like to be with this girl. Yeah not much to say about the text game (I have none lol).

So go direct and tell her outright that I like her and then see what happens? And make sure I use the "but since she's got a bf you can't, so call you when she's broken up with him" line or something similar?

Or should I wait it out and use a couple boyfriend destroyers then go direct/go direct and use boyfriend destroyers? I'm not sure whether I should go direct+BF destroyer or be subtle+BF Destroyer? Or does the last one get me in the friend zone?

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