I've got a frustrating problem that I dont know how to change! Would really appreciate your help...

Met a girl, really like her, we've been out on three dates, all over each other on all three, no sex as yet, every time we go out we have a great time but the problem is that she takes 2 or 3 days to reply to my texts/phone calls. When we do speak, we talk and arrange a new date but these dates are about two weeks apart because of this stupid game. I cant keep the momentum up it seems.

She apologises for not getting in touch, she is having a tough time and seems to be a little depressed (said she doesnt get back to her closest friends for days too).

Honestly, i want to be seeing her 2 or 3 times a week and see if we can make it work, but this taking ages to respond thing wont let that happen.

When we do go out, she really indicates interest...

What do i do?!

I'd suggest you sit down and figure out what you want from this relationship (which I think you already kind of have) and communicate that to her. See if she wants the same thing else move on.

As far as the fact that she doesn't even get time to call her best friend is concerned, I think that's BS. We all have around 15 waking hours in a day. That's enough time to call someone and inquire about them, if you really like them.

After all, everyone manages to make time for their priorities, don't they?

James De Pond,,what the hell are you doing going on dates after dates wih this girl!!?

Yall have had 3 dates and you didn't lay her yet!!!?

She essentially sees you as a wussy or a man who cannot pull the trigger.

Traditional dates get you traditional results-no lay.

You should be trying to get this chicc to your place.

You said yall did everything except sex. She's tired of your games and doesn't want to deal with it anymore.

And btw,she's laying other guys so she doesn't hav time to be responding to you promptly.

She's trying to keep up wit the guys she's currently screwing-not the guy who's playing hard to get at the wrong moment,or not man enough to close the deal.

What I'd do:invite her for a walk;no dinner date bullshit.
The objective is to get her to your place or hers. Walk her until you suddenly come across your place then tell her lets go in. You should face resistance but keep on.

If you can just tell her to come to your place and she complies-well job easily done.

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