Every now and then I get a flake. Some PUA's tell me to play harder and seal the deal, but I usually just drop the rappoir on the spot and end it.

I always ask myself one thing..

"Would she do this if I were Brad Pitt?"

If the answer's no I realize I haven't displayed enough value and the gal's got some buyers remorse. At the same time tho I could give 2 shits there's plenty of fish.

So here's my question..

Is it better to deal with the flake for practice, or to truly believe I'm above being flaked on?

Hey man,

The problem with beliefs is that they change easily based on the feedback you receive from external sources. Hence, you might choose to believe something, but what's the use if it won't take much time for the belief to get shattered anyway?

As for Brad Pitt? Do you really think he has never been flaked by any girl after he became a celebrity? I don't think so.

But does it really affect him? I don't think so either. Why? Because he's the kind of man woman want to be with.

Anyway, the point I'm trying to make is why not really become that man who is happy, has a lot going for him, and excited about his life, rather than pretending to be one.

If a man was really this way, do you think rejection or women flaking him really matter to him? Do you think if women saw/knew he was such a man, they'd reject/flake him most of the times?

These two articles helped me a lot on beginning my journey in this direction: http://www.attractioninstitute.org/why- ... with-women and http://www.attractioninstitute.org/what ... se-in-life

I think you will find them useful too.

Kudos On the post man I liked the links, I understand fully. Inner game happens to be my key area of focus. Maybe I should have reworded my question, but the job thing I totally understand.

I'm a 20 year old entrepreneur. I used to be an actor and i know when Brad first got started in the game he had no skills and was a AFC to the max. You may or may not be interested but the company I'm working with is looking for some sharp indivisuals. I'd first have to check if you're even qualified but I'd love to keep conversing amigo regardless.