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ok.. im basically right now meeting girls online... i usually geta a response from
1-2 of every 3 girls i contact.. which isnt a bad rate.. and a few contacting me...

of the girls i chat with, almost 100% eventually give phone #

of the phone #s, 80-90% turn into D2s...

and about 50% of them i am interested in seeing again.

now once im making the connection and setting up the D2, things go well.. get these kind of messages regularly "i cant wait to meet you" " definitely looking forward to meeting " "ill drive out to where you are. i dont mind driving.. ", etc

every girl im on a D2 with feels the need to comment on what a great time she is having (eveb grabbing my arm and saying thank you.. im having a great time~
but im getting no progression after?.... some will kiss me after, some i held back on escalating to kiss, no difference..

im the same person on the phone as i am in the bar. and i look like my pictures online... so what else could possibly be different on person?

i am a little nervous meeting someone the first time, but its not debilitating or keeping me from having a fun conversation... last one having so much fun lost track of time and it was only when my phone rang she remembered to check the time about seeing her dad.. im5'4" which is an insecurity of mine, but doesnt seem to have been an issue to this extent..

so basically, anybody have any ideas why i might not be getting past D2s? i thought it might be neediness, so i have been keeping an eye on that but no results.

obviously im missing part of the answer, but maybe somebody can help me figure whats up?

its getting to the point that I'm reluctant to meet any of these girls in person because I'm afraid to burn opportunities without knowing what I'm doing wrong..

I know I'm not creepy or anything.. after my D2 last night.. (she practically ran out after saying she had a great time and hasnt called me since), I went back to the bar and hung out for a couple drinks.. next thing I know, I'm hanging out with 3 guys and about 7 HB9-10 girls and we all went to another bar and were dancing, drinking, and grinding on the dance floor...

I know I'm completely missing something.. any help would be appreciated..

I think I just realized what the problem is...

I dont put a lot of effort and time into planning a fantastic D2. I spent all that time putting together a killer online prrofile thats getting a lot of attention, but my D2s are like.. lets meet for coffee and see where it goes from there...

im usually so happy to find free time we can both connect on, i jump at the frst day avail and fit her it..

im relying almost completely on my personality to pull through a D2.. and by extension showing her that shes not all that important if i put all that time into a profile to meet people but basically slapping together whats really our first "date".

im reading a bunch of stuff on D2 now.. does it sound like im getting it