Guys, help me out here,

I worked in Spain this summer, and met a girl there. We made out a couple of nights there and then she went back home. For the last 4 monthes I spoke to here a couple of times on the phone, and we agreed to meet this weekend and I would sleep at here place.
So I went to here place, then I went to the club with here and here girlfriends. It was a lot of fun and we kissed a few times in the club.
When we came home she suggested I'd sleep in here bed. So we were making out and I was touching here, and rubbing pants. When I wanted to put my hand in her panty so said "Dont, I dont know you that well" So I responded with, yeah I know this is bad, and cept going on. She didnt want me to continu so I started kissing her again and started over again. 10 minutes later I was rubbing her panty again, pulled it aside and started using my finger. A few minutes later she told me to stop again. I told her I respected that, turned around and told her I was going to sleep (freeze out) haha that didnt have much effect because she also went to sleep and my dick was still hard.
This was pretty much all that happend. I have to say that tis is a girl who only had sex with 1 guy, who was here boyfriend.
Do you guys have any tips for the next time/girl??? The anti LMR routines didnt really work, maybe I should talk to her more, and let here get to know me better?

Let me know what you think!

Thanks

Your freeze out was too extreme. Next time, don't "go to sleep" - or so will she. Don't expect that she was gonna wake you up just to have sex, when she in fact was insecure about it in the first place.

Instead: When you freeze out, go get a drink, check your mail or read something. The point is just to kill the mood in order to later revive it. What you did was: You killed the mood, and you buried it 500 feet down the ground.

Capishe?

Hahah oke oke, I get your point. I could'nt come up with anything else, I was at here place and didnt have my laptop or anything. But I could have gone downstairs to get a drink.
But she's probably comming to sleep here in a few weeks, I need to know what to do when this happens again. It really really sucks to sleep next to a hb8 and not doing anything. Any tips maybe? I am trying to build more comfort over the phone, because she lives far away...

Thanks

Maybe you didn't build enough long term value with her because she knew you were only there for a visit. If earlier in the day you talked her through all the future things you WILL do with her, she might have had less LMR which you could have overcome by reminding her of all those future things you're going to do in your new life together.

That said, I think it's a little bit of a lost cause. She has minimal investment in you because you live in another country and she suspects you will never see her again (which is probably true.) I wouldn't bother trying to game this one from long distance unless you are pretty sure you can orchestrate some future time when you can be together.

$.02