I invited this college chick to watch a movie last holidays.. she said yes but then it got cancelled cuz she had to go to a family thing for four days... Now it's school time again I'm planning to ask her out (first time) again.. She's the quiet type but friendly around me.. How do I ask her out again without sounding too needy? and what kind of game should I lay down to seal the deal? Should it also be a movie? or is it okay if we jsut eat out? haha! thanks for the replies peeps!

This is how I would do it if she agreed on seeing me:

First off, I would go out and eat lunch with her at for example Subway. Of course, you do NOT pay for her. You both pay for each other and go out as "friends that want to get to know each other". While you're eating at Subway (remember, Sub is just an example. That's where I go), make sure you kino escalate a lot. Make her comfortable with your touch as early as possible. All in all - game her as usual. Open, attract, qualify and comfort. The seduction will be saved for now.

After an hour or two at sub, you decide to go to YOUR place (not hers) to watch a movie as you'd planned earlier. So both of you sit on the couch, watching a movie that you both will enjoy.

This is where the fun begins. After 15 minutes of the movie, start playfully tickling her and playing with her. Then, all of a sudden - take that playful touching away from her. Say something like "Wow, you're too easy!" and just get up. Go drink some water or something. Take away the fun you gave her. When you get back to the couch, just hold her while watching the movie. She is now comfortable enough to touch you without giving an "awkward SPAM" in the room. So just hold her. Either hug her or sit close enough that you are touching each other.

It's extremely important that you can tell when the "vibe is on". In other words, that she is ready to be kissed. This is where you play a kiss routine and go for it.

An example of a kiss routine could be:

"Hey, let's play a game. It's called "Almost Kiss" (as you say the name of the game, watch her reaction. If she looks disgusted or uncomfortable, just say "Ah fuck it. Never mind" and keep watching the movie). The rules of the game are that you are gonna move as CLOSE as possible to my lips - and you're not allowed to kiss me."

Then, if she agrees to the game - play it. Hold your lips close to each other for about 3 seconds - but DON'T kiss her. Play by the rules mate. After 2 or 3 seconds, playfully push her off and say "Okay that's enough <smile>".

Then, after a minute or two (if she felt comfortable by the game and liked it) - go in for the real kiss.

I wouldn't suggest you went in for the seduction on your first date. This is because she's in your social circle and you shouldn't risk getting a reputation of a player.

Anyways, good luck!

Yours,

Zentrode.

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This Reputation of a player might sound cool, but it isn't.

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oh hell yeah it is! better than being a wuss, right?

Actually, no. Maybe it's cool being a player at clubs and bars/other locations where it's easier to get one night stands and where the women don't care as much if you're a player or not.

But in your SOCIAL CIRCLE?? Hell NO. That will become a bad reputation. Rather staying neutral and unknown than a player.

Especially in school.