Hey chaps, I need your advice!

A few weeks ago I was out with a few friends and I met this girl! She was part of our social group for the evening and although we didn't speak much that night, she gave me a couple of IOIs!

Anyway a few days later I got a text off my friend telling me she was interested and gave me her number! I gave my number originally with the intention of letting her start the interaction but ultimately her friend text back saying to text her first! I wasn;t sure whether to take this as she was nervous and wasn;t sure what to say or because she was making me work! Anyway I opened!

After a few text interactions, some role play games, I tried to arrange a meet! I have tried this 3 times and on each occasion something has came up or plans have changed! I think this is probably due to issues with comfort! We are clearly attracted to each other but because we haven't spent time, I haven't had the chance of building comfort!

Anyway the conversation has now gone quiet and Im stuck for something to reopen with! It has been about 2 weeks but I think I can reopen successfully with a meet at the end of it! The problem is where to start!

Just thought, a game would be a good way to start! Some roleplay! Anyone got any ideas? She also lives out of town though not far away! I think logistics probably screwed me in the first instance but I can go meet her so that shouldnt be a problem!

Any ideas chaps? If you need any more info leave a post and I will respond ASAP! I am thinking something cocky and interesting but cannt think of anything! I know how I should go back into it, its just what to start with! Any help appreciatted

Cheers

Cambria

Sounds like a flake to me. You have not built enough comfort so she is questioning why are you contacting her? and what made her attracted to you in the first place? Send her a text - it is unlikely she will want to answer a phone call at the moment.

Try a flake text like - ''I've enjoyed speaking to you and I think we could be something good. If not thats cool, take care''.

The ball is in her court if she is interested she will reply. Do not try role play until you have done this. If she is not comfortable she will not comply with it.

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