I've found this to be one of my Sticking Points.

With my behaviour, my conversations, my text messages + IMs, I want to learn how to increase Sexual Tension between myself and a girl.

Could anyone direct me to some good reading material for this ? And also maybe give me some advice on how I can start to Up the Tempo effectively.

Thanks,

Prophet

Cheers for that Zentrode, I've given it a read through as well as reading the 'Shock and Awe' "technique".

What I'm wondering is, will it work on a girl you've already known for quite a long time ? If I haven't been overly-sexual upto this point, if my frame suddenly changes, will it work ?

Depends. Are you in the friend zone with this girl? If you haven't had any kino at all and all of a sudden start building sexual tension - it's gonna freak her out.

So how is the situation between the two of you? Also, DiCarlo's Escalation Ladder can help you kino escalate properly and carefully (just google it).

GirlFriend, we went on a break, but now working on getting back together.

Sexual Tension is something I didn't build enough of before, caused a loss of interest, don't want it to happen again. Want to change the way she views me slightly to increase her sexual attraction to me.

So I've done some reading + thinking, and what I'm gathering is that the way to build sexual tension is to consistently get the idea of you having sex with the girl into her head ?

How have you guys found the best way to do this to be ? Just making innunedos where you can ? Even making statements such as:

"I genuinely feel sorry for the next girl who I have sex with"
HB: "Why?"
"Because I'm going to blow her mind."

What kinda things do you guys say to increase Sexual Tension ?

Also, note to Moderator: Might be worth moving this to Mid-Game Section ? Or even Relationships as I'm relating it to one ? I dunno .

Not going to work. You need to think like a chick, not like a dude. Girls don't have sex for the same reasons we do. They need an emotional bond with the guy and you show that by flipping their reproduction switches (DHV, kino, showing long term value).

Touching is the best segue to sex for a girl if she's into you. NLP can help but you can hypnotize her into your bed. You need to start kino and continue escalating it. Start with playful non-sexual touching and test for compliance. If it works, continue escalating. Don't go to fast or her ASD will kick in.