........ I have this problem that I sometimes open up TOO EASILY and become brutally honest about how I feel.

I was gaming this HB8 and I managed to successfully go into the comfort phase. She said I was really interesting and fun and she loves to get to know me. We texted a lot and talked on msn for hours etc. Then we started talking about my best friend. I told her I needed to tell her some really .... dark stuff about my best friend. The reason I would tell her these things is because I was planning on breaking contact with my best friend and I was gonna need moral support during my recovery.

So I told her everything my best friend has done wrong and why I'm leaving her. Then the worst thing happened... My best friend became really close friends with the HB8.

After this, the HB8 started completely disliking me. She acts normal and all, but I can feel a very negative vibe between us.

Could this have entirely depended on the fact that I opened up too easily? When are you supposed to open up for stuff like this?

Thanks,

Zentrode.

I honestly don't start into stuff like that until I've know a girl for a while. By a while I mean probably a good month or so of dating. Basically, when I have established a solid relationship with the girl. I know she sees us as a couple and she's on my side no matter what. Then that stuff starts coming out.

Of course, when building comfort bits and pieces of me I keep hidden from the world come out, but close to the heart stuff concerning my friends/family comes out much later.

I see your reasoning behind talking to her about it, I just thinking it might have come out a little too soon in the relationship.

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Just as I thought...

Unfortunately, I think this is a dead set now. She dislikes me and we're not talking or keeping contact in any way.

To move on I guess would be the wisest idea.

Thanks for the reply J.