Ok, guys, I have a problem! There is one girl in my school that I really like, and I already did initial contact...we were having "eye to eye" contact for 1 or 2 weeks and then I've decided to approach her! I asked my teacher if I can go to the bathroom and then I ran to her class, make some excuse and took her away from her class! Then I asked her if she wanna go to coffee with me and she asked me when. I sad whenever she wants...that was crucial, because at that moment I hit the wall! She is training athletics and she's really busy so she "don't" have time, and she doesn't want to blow me off in the last minute (that's what she said)...so I told her, "Ok, no problem we'll work something our via Facebook"...she said, sure, no problem! Later that day I send her message via Facebook and I know she saw the message, but didn't respond! So, I obviously have to get her attention (she needs to think about me all the time, not other way around) but I don't know how to do it! So, do you have some tips?

Nice with the eye contact and askin her out for coffee. Few problems though..

1. When you asked her out for coffee and she said "when?" , dont respond with "whenever you would like" or somthing like that. It makes you sound like you have nothing going on and would clear all your plans just to get coffee with this girl. You made the approach and you asked for coffee so set up a date and time that revolves around YOUR schedule, cuz your the alpha and you have plenty of other things to do in the week. She will see this as much more attractive then just putting the decision on her as to when she wants to get coffee.

2. You alrready made a solid approach in person to her, now why would u want to backtrack to facebook? Now dont get me wrong, facebook is a solid form of talking to women but it seems like u just made the approach in person and now you want to talk to her on ur comp? Get her number or just tell her you will pick her up at a certain time to get coffee. Dont be so needy and just tell her you find her interesting and would like to get to know her.

Ok so she hasent responded to your facebook message. Simply go up to her in school and neg her about not responding to your message but act like you dont give a fuck. Then, follow my steps above and just set a time to meet you for coffee. It she flakes and makes up excuses then shes not interested and then fuck it... plenty of other girls. Just dont be so needy and good things will happen. Who knows, she may see you having a good time with naother girl one day and she will realize that she passed on you then she will want you badd. Gotta love women.

-Johio

Johio21, thank you for the answer!