ok so this is whats up to make a long story short, met this chick and becuase shes hot, guys are always giving her attention, i managed to keep her intrigued, we went out on about 4 dates i sealed the deal on the second, the problem is she keeps giving me mixed signals, everytime we hangout shes all over me to the point where we could hook up but she always refrains and says "well thats enough for tonight" she also plays the hot and cold bit, by txting me all the time then ignoring me. our last date we went on she bought me dinner and a shit load of drinks then said if she wasnt interested in me she wouldnt be doing this, but at the sametime she wants to have a casual relationship inturns of seeing other ppl if one of us happens to meet someone else. so what am i suppose to do to get her to be just with me? ive tried ignoring her and that kinda worked but not really getting a reaction out of her, ive also went on another date with someone else but that didnt seem to work either. any suggestions?

I know these type of girls and for some reason they always spark my interest. The best thing you can do in my opinion is to do exactly the same thing she is doing. These girls usually crave attention. so next time take her on a date and half way through start negging other girls. Show her that you don't need to be there with her, you have plenty of options. I did this to a girl a week ago. Halfway trough the evening I went to the bathroom and saw an old friend, stopped and talked to her for a bit. Ofcourse my date, who didn't know it was a friend, was pissed of, and jealous. Later that night I K-closed her.

I know these type of girls and for some reason they always spark my interest. The best thing you can do in my opinion is to do exactly the same thing she is doing. These girls usually crave attention. so next time take her on a date and half way through start negging other girls. Show her that you don't need to be there with her, you have plenty of options. I did this to a girl a week ago. Halfway trough the evening I went to the bathroom and saw an old friend, stopped and talked to her for a bit. Ofcourse my date, who didn't know it was a friend, was pissed of, and jealous. Later that night I K-closed her.

unfortunally i dropped her, she blew me off 2wice this week with plans she made with me not the other way around and now she wont even return txt msgs, what a bitch lol