Ok so i met this really amazing HB8 a few weeks ago and she was reeallly into me...I even fucked her the first night we hungout. And we kept hanging out for about a week and it looked like I'd finally found a girl that will last. Then last saturday I fucked it all up when she was at my house and I tried to take her upstairs and she wouldn't go. I took this as a big IOD and froze her out and made up an excuse and brought her home early. This did not go over well and she was so pissed she didn't talk to me for a few days and she lost her cell phone so now myspace is the only way to talk to her. I talked to her yesterday and she said she wasnt mad anymore but the whole conversation was extremely cold and the attraction isn't there anymore. How do I get her back to being really into me? What shud I do to put it back to the way it was before?

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By freezing her out after she wouldn't go upstairs with you, you might have made a big mistake, even though some books might tell you that is the way to go.
This might have given her the idea that you're only using her for sex, and you're not. You want her to think she doesn't own you, not that you're just using her.

What did you say to her when she stopped ignoring you? Did you apologize or ? Kinda hard to give advice for me without knowing that.

I've been in the same situation and i told her in a semi-AFC way that I didn't want to give her the impression I was using her, and that I liked her for other things but she was obviously still mad at me and that I would leave her alone because I fucked up.
If this girl really likes you (like that girl did with me) she will come around, this is what worked for me.

If she doesn't come around, then you just have to take this loss and learn from your mistake. Who knows why she didnt want to go upstairs? she might have been on her period, or just not feeling like it. Maybe you didn't turn her on enough to get in the right mindset.

Good luck I hope you keep us updated on how things go mate.

Chillburg.

Welcome to Buyer's Remorse dude. You have to show her that you aren't using her. Take her out and don't try to get her in bed every time. You need to show that you are interested in her and not her pussy.
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