ok. So last year i had been hooking up with this girl and to say the least it ended with her trying to bait me into dating her by saying "Do you think we should just be besties?"

i took that as her breaking it off with me. When in fact, i was told by her and my friends that she wanted to date me. It was basically over and ended with me feeling shitty and her getting with another guy a couple of days later.

Months later we hang out and she is basically all over me, and starts holding my hand during the car ride. At that time i was adamant not to kiss her because i had the mindset that "Its not when you want to bitch, its when i want to." plus i was butthurt over what happened earlier in the year. she got back with her bf the day after.

I get a text from her as soon as she breaks up with her bf a couple of days ago. We texted and i know she wants it, the but the thing is she knew i felt bad after the whole thing, and sort of uses my attraction to her as a weapon, even thought she still wants it.

I cant see how me texting her first wouldn't seem like being needy, bc she knows im attracted. Not sure how to approach this. help dudes

If you want to sleep with this girl, do it. If not, politely decline. I'm really confused as to exactly what the problem is here ...

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Ya why on earth would you reject her? Once you get a girl in bed her mind should be made up about who she's gonna be thinking about the next week. Especially if you don't call her the next day and she calls you.

You should hook up with her then tell her to text you later. When she does don't text her back unless she asks if you were ignoring her. If she doesn't she will call. If she does ask you call her. Make plans.

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