How on earth do you do this when you're in a situation like mine?

I read about inviting girls to parties/out etc. I'm pretty much a loner, don't get invited to parties and when my 'friends' go out to clubs and such, they don't ask me if I wanna go.
When I get in discussions with girls, I have nothing to talk about. I have no actual stories to tell about wild nights and such. All I do all day is play games and watch TV. I mean, due to this I have a wild knowledge of pop culture and can talk gossip and such (which is fairly helpful and consists of most of my conversation with girls). But there's nothing more, nothing personal that con demonstrate my value. Despite my best efforts, at the end of the day I still come across looking like a loser when it comes to the 'so what are you doing tonight?' which is predictably nothing or when it comes to them asking my history with girls, which is nothing.

How can I make the best of my incredibly crap situation?

Advice is wanted urgently, but please, if you're going to say 'get cool friends' then don't bother, as this isn't helpful as due to my current situation that's not going to happen. Cheers.

man I know your struggle. You need to join a class at the local community college do they have those in Austrailia? If not then you need to join some volunteer organization. You need to go to a church or some social setting other than parties. You need to get a purpose to your life. The reason you are having a hard time is because you have no direction. You need to start up your engine and drive. You need to get on a path. Think about it and ask me if you have any questions. You need purpose.

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I don't necessarily think that's it. I'm at Uni currently studying Law, so I don't think that's much of a problem. It's just that people turn up and then go straight afterwards, so I never have the chance to talk to people. it's not like being at school where social interaction is encouraged.

What is it then?

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Well, if I knew that I wouldn't be here, I'd be banging hot chicks.

you can always DHV by telling stuff that happened to a pal of yours, it will be connected to you, so read some other people's DHVs.


and find some hobbies man!

We are telling you something you don't want to hear. You have a mental block. If you can't hear it then it's to your own demise.

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Yeah. i mean, i find I'm talking ALL THE TIME about stuff that's happened to my brothers. It just feels like it wouldn't work since it's not me that's doing it.

See my hobbies are playing games and collecting action figures. I'm pretty much the 40 Year old virgin in his youth!!

The only 'big' story I can think of its that I was almost selected for a reality TV show, but this was a 'nerd dating' show to begin with. So either I can admit that I'm a supernerd but one of the best damn nerds out there ( ) or I can just leave it. I'm not sure if it is DHV story, as I kinda have to DLV in order to tell it.

You don't need to tell crazy stories of you going out with blah blah and doing blah blah .. to get a girl impressed.
It does helps.
But its more of triggering those attraction switches: make her laugh, tease her, be confident.
If your life is really boring, then get some hobbies, pick up a musical instrument, join a band, etc...
Start asking your friends things like "Lets party this weekend" ... if they don't ask you is because they don't think youre "cool" enough for the party, so ask them, and then at the party be "cool" make them laugh, have a great energy etc...
Things come, but if you don't do anything to make them come, they will never come ( :

If you want to change that path, I reckon you ought to enrich your social circle. (I think that also happened in the movie ).

Find things you are good with and make them a hobbie, just as long there are people around.




this might help, I've seen this link floating around here for some time
http://www.succeedsocially.com/

God that's some serious info right there, cheers!!!

If your really passionate about collecting action figures and gaming then just talk about that... Some girls are very attracted to the nerd types... And if you can get into a social circle where people have similar interests than you this will undoubtedly increase the odds in your favor.

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Perhaps, but you must admit that not many hot women move in those circles. I can't say i'm really passionate about it, it's just something I do because I have nothing better to do. like, i'd rather be out partying with girls than playing games, but since I don't have that i'm stuck playing games to pass the time instead.

Fuckin lie out of your teethe. Tell a DHV story about how a party your friend hosted got busted by the cops and ruined ur partying experience. Tell the women that without that person in life to go out with that its pointless. Some women dig men that are deep in their emotions. Honestly talk some sports, lie and tell her your going to hit the gym later. What you do at night dosnt have to be all party.

Flat out tell her that, nah tonight I dedicated to my boys, they want me to play this video game with them and get drunk, going to be boring but I skipped on them so many times already.

YOu don't always have to tell the truth. After you spike her attraction for you, thats when you start to build comfort with her, thats when you can reveal the deep inner you.

Attraction before comfort. Hang in there buddy!

Or how about not?

@ The author of this thread: Start developing some talents that you can talk about.