So I took this girl out that I met through an online singles site. We went out to eat, I paid and we talked for a couple hours after wards while walking around. When the date ended, we planned a second date for a few days later and she canceled the day before saying she forgot she had already planned something else. I've tried calling a couple times, and sending texts, but haven't really gotten any responses. I don't want to over do it calling or texting and I'm not setting my heart on this one, but I do like the girl. Any advice to get a second date? And I should say now that I'm Christian; I used to play the game pretty hard and I've left the darker part of it to find a real relationship. So I'm not trying to get her to sleep with me. Thanks. Shalom.

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Your Humble Servant and Brother,

Cohath

You should restrain from your tempations to call and text her. Forgive me for assuming but I believe your mind is thinking up stories in the furture with her. I believe you are creating illusions because you are motivated, and motivation come from thoughts. Don't imagine the furture with her. It's hard to know someone in only a couple of hours. It is more likely that you feel good when around her because of the attention you recieve from her. It is important to keep moving on. Women hate it when you imagine the furture, and you barly know them, and it's a sure way to smell of desperation. It's going to take many women before you find the right one, and it is going to take many lost women before you grow into a man with displine and forethought to control your emotions by controlling thought.

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Walk Hard

ahalan

time to acquire a new target.

Or is it a repeated problem?

Well her status on Facebook says that she's now in a relationship. Ah Facebook, the bane of my existence. Oh well I'm already moving on, this one seems to be a lost cause. But thanks for the advice, that will surely help in the future. Shalom.

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Your Humble Servant and Brother,

Cohath