Hey all,

I have a challenge that im facing now and ive always had this and only just recongised it now. When ever im with a girl or person i find it i cant come out straight with what i want, eg, just casual sex or friendship and this leads into unwanted relationships which im not really ready for..
Ive currently meet one girl last night who is great to talk to and interesting personality but i didnt find my self instantly attracted to her , id say she is a 5/6 outta 10. dispite that i didnt nothing that night coz i wanted to keep it netural. Really i see this girl as a relationship type of girl who wouldnt fuck or anything, she told me herself she is reglion n stuff, i duno what to make of it. - i think im just too affriad.

The second ive meet at club and i had a simple conversation and we really hit it off, and she is about 6/10.

Basically id like to have multipul relationships so i can gain experience and explore the different kinds of women thats out there but im affriad in doing so , i dont know how to say i have "other girls" or im just into casual sex or anything like that.. im thinking this is dumb but your experience and prepspective would be appriated as from now on im going to take a more guided path then just waste my time thinking i know it all.

This is my 2nd week going out, and already ive meet 2 new women, ONE i approached myself and the other thru a friend who i isolated and talked to. i think ive done better then before.. which was nothing.
So this is were i am at. How many girls are you guys keeping around or are you not keeping them at all ?

i personally have been tied down to monogamy, but in regards to your problem, i think you already know what it is, you're just too afraid.
the best advice is to just do it. everyone learns that at some point in their life...haha i learned it last week, and am still pushing closer towards getting what i want.

and, if you don't want to be in a serious relationship with one person, then just never mention it. you'll more than likely get what you want as long as you never confirm that you dont want to enter a serious relationship with her, ever (which might not even be true)