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Ok, so first off im 17 - post your lol if you want. There's a girl in my social circle and I can't cut her out.
This is probably the biggest bitch I've had to deal with. I switched schools this September. At first there was tight attraction between us and it was all fine, I was after her friend, not her but she was really into me. I'm going to be referring to these girls as ex-target and bitch.
I ended up not going in for the kill with ex target because she was boring as hell.
That being said in the weeks that followed I think I overdid C&F and I was kind of a dick a few times. This is when bitch started to get hostile. When I would be in the group just leading a conversation or trying to be an alphamale she would say things like fuck off, leave, you're annoying ect. So I tried being nice around her. Several more weeks and bitch's bitch level grew. From now on she will be referred to as "mega bitch". It's almost impossible for me to talk to people around her and if I EVER neg I can kiss my ass goodbye.
This girl is really killing me I can't figure her out. She calls me a dick when I've been nice to everyone around her for a while (I'm actually a really nice guy).
WHAT SHOULD I DO?!
I've thought about replying to her comments with things like, " are you an uptight bitch to everyone or just people cooler than you?" but that might be extreme and she would probably just repeat leave or you're a dick nobody likes you. Normally I wouldn't care but today mega bitch DLVed me big time in front of an 8 and a 9...
"wow you seem so hostile today, what happened...did your vibrator run out of batteries or something?" (I read this one on the forums lol)..
but I wouldn't take no shit from her, if she say's fuck off, say make me, she say's your a dick, say right back at ya. Don't let her walk on you.
As for why she's a bitch? Well you went for her friend while she had an attraction towards you. Women get rejected in different ways to men. (I read this off some PUA book, forgot which one though
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but it pretty much say's that yeah women spend so much more time getting ready to go out, doing their hair, makeup, etc, compared to guys that when they do go out and a guy who they're interested in doesn't notice them, or doesn't open them, they take it as a rejection in some ways. Maybe she's hostile towards you because you sort of chose her friend over her initially?
Oh and you also said you overdid CC and made yourself look like a dick in some occasions...then you went into "nice guy" mode, so with that your showing weakness and giving her even more power.
Maybe instead of finding a certain "line" or "act" or "routine" you could use for her, you could try being yourself, and ask her in a sincere way, whats your problem, what have you got against me?
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