Hey guys,

I've developed great rapport with this girl in my class. She definitely shows IOIs when I tease and whatnot. Just recently were studying at her place and I made a good effort to change scenery going to her place, then to the market to make food, quick stop to my place and then back to her place again. I figure I was in C3.

We talked and we were hanging out with her roommate who then went to bed early and we went to her room. I initiated S1 with more kino, but for some reason she shut me down. I told her I liked her and thought she was adorable. She then told me that she's put in an awkward situation because she was planning to go date this other guy who is also in my class. She distinguished me as the good guy and him as the jerk (she likes jerks!). We just ended up talking and I fell asleep with her on her bed. Note, she was huddled up on her side of the bed. Total anti-slut mode.

Anyway I see them flirt once in a while. She says she likes me and is put in a position to choose between the two of us. I still continue rapport and kino, but I wonder if I'm going anywhere with it. What do you think?

Ok, at this point I'm thinking of doing a freeze-out. So ignoring her sms, phone calls and not really being enthusiastic with her when in person. The other guy may have the upper hand since I'm letting my guard down at this point and so that's what I'm worried about.

If that doesn't work I'll probably disqualify myself altogether and just let her know that I want to be happy for her and so she should just carry on because she is also wasting my time.

How often does she call/text?

You don't necessarily have to freeze out completely, but you could become very hard to contact..

we text everyday. she has smilies. but I dunno, seeing how the other guy and her flirt from a distance makes me sick and it brings the animal KILL instinct out of me.

I reckon freeze out. If she likes jerks then be the jerk. Almost every guy on this website has been the nice guy at some point and if PUA and the game has taught us anything it's 'the nice guy always finishes last' take your own advice. Remember 'two steps forwards one step back'. I think you have a good shot.

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"Stay hungry, stay healthy, be a gentleman, believe strongly in yourself and go beyond limitations.” - Arnold Schwarzenegger

FREINDS ZONE!

You made the mistake in the beginning. Unless you want to do some seroius work in terms of redefining yourself in her image, which you really SHOULDN'T want to.
Then you are her freind. Be her freind and if she is loyal and a good freind tresure her.

ANYONE who claims that you should freeze out a girl who puts you in the freinds zone is clearly A.) Impotent B.) Gay C.) Hopeless D.) Fucking with you.

If you are really really stuck check out ross jefries boyfreind destroyer. Its takes at least 6 months to master however .
Change plate and don't go out with girls in your immidiate enviroment.

WRONG!!!! freezeouts arent always bad, so first off go fuck urself.

second, i say fuck the freezeout, if u REALLY like her and she likes the "badboys", go get some girls and introduce ur new girlfriends to her as ur "old friend" and wink at her as u do so, she'll be totally mind fucked by this!

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Push her towards him.

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V1V

I think it's a good idea of what dw3llz is telling me to do. thanks. that sounds a lot better. as for v1v, how is pushing her toward him going to benefit me? and how exactly would you play that off?

First of all reactions... You just lost a whole lot of respect from everyone in this forum. What a dipshit thing to say.


I think V1V has earned those points. I'll try and elaborate on what he was saying. I believe it was Ross Jeffries who said 'don't play "her" game', whether you do a freeze out or 'push her towards him' you are not falling into her game. She will be confused and intrigued by your behaviour and attracted.

Maybe say something along the lines of 'yeah I would probably just end up breaking your heart anyway. you'd be better off with the "trailor park kid" not much of a challenge there'.

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I suggest you read this thread. It might help you out (by Reo).

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Thanks Zentrode I appreciate the thought. I did read this because I wanted to find as much about freeze outs as I could so that I could execute it flawlessly. An update however, my freeze outs are not stimulating her interest to chase me. Although it has only been a couple days, I will continue to press on for a week or two. Hopefully this plan works out. Thanks again to all of you who made suggestions I really appreciate it.

SSnake

i think honestly you should read into some boyfriend destroyers routines get the concept down its basically the same idea and number two i would go into the good old mystery method (aka: talk her fucking ear off) more report you build with her the more loosing you is going to seem like a bad idea should sway the odds in your favor... i really hope this isnt the girl im being a dick to in my class to try and get with lol.

Today I sat away from her in class which is an odd thing. She never questioned me about it. She sat outside as I was passing by I saw her head turn and look at me, but I had sun glasses on so I didn't turn my head. I saw her through the peripherals. Anyway, she didn't call me over or approached me. She just sat there and started texting.

Freeze outs should take time I assume...but is it really wise of me to continue since I'm not getting any response from her whatsoever, especially with another guy on her tail? If she ever talks to me, I do plan on pushing her toward him and play the non-needy role. I wonder if that would be wise also after a freeze out?

dude ur solid right now, she acknowledged you, she knows u didnt wanna talk to her. tell her he's the man for the job, some1 she can control... some c/f shit like that when u do talk to her about it but dont push her into the conversation

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