Hello all,

So, I met this chick,and yesterday eve was our first date. Problem: she's bisexual and more interested in girls than men (rarely men, but ok for long term-she plan kids in her future-).

Bad: She called herself as a lesbian,told me she was interested in a girl (i dunno if still now). --> so negative clues.

But on the other side: we were looking often at each other's eyes. Hers were often shining, sometimes we had arms on the table, close to each other, she laughed a lot, we talk about emotions, she told me private stuffs (confidences) and even had sex talks!
Plus, when i joked about our futur couple (her n me) or a romantic date at a macdonald she didnt look rejecting it directly u know (--> she could have say: "yeah but im gay" but she didnt, just laughed and looked at me, her eyes shining)
As well when we left the bar (we were there from 22h till 01h, when we have been kicked out! she told me outside i owe her a drink,so wanted to meet again!

More, when back at her place she wrote me a sms to tell me she had a great eve and
she liked talking to me, aso.

So i dont think the date was boring for her!

---> So finally i have good/bad stuffs and i dunno if i gotta try to continue to seduce her
or give up? Coz maybe im a guy from the minority and it would be a shame to give up, but i maybe as well i risk to waste my time in front of a real gay...

What would u do if u were me?

Thx guys!!

ps: sry for my shitty english, not my mother language...

1. did you fake a lot or were you just yourself? if you were down to earth, just enjoying the situation and being pretty much honest about yourself and she acted the way you said, you have a good chance at delivering the same performance again. of course she might really just want you as a friend but you thought she was attracted to you and you should simply trust that feeling for you cant find out anyway.
2. do you think shes worth it? if yes, go for it! (no matter what the answer to 1 was)

i hope that was an inspiration, let us know how it all turns out in the end

Ok thx. Actually i was at university for 1 lesson 2day with her n she told me she felt tired and maybe catch a cold. She looked unhappy, aso. and when I told her i had legs-ache coz running the whole day in her mind, she did not laugh, she didnt have any reaction.
The worst was when she left. We were waitng at bus stop, she took her bus, we kissed on cheeks as anybody do in europe to say bye or hello (like shaking hands), so nothing hot, and she just told me: "see you later"!
--> so i dont think it will go one. I will invite her to go to a club with me and there i'll know by dancing with her, kissing or nothing.

hehe, i finally got it hin hin!!

I went with her into niteclub yest. eve we kissed for 1h30, including biting and stuff.

But just one last question please:

It was hot til we got outta the club, she was then less enthousiastic (tired as well, it was 3.30 am). And when she took her bus we kissed nicely but she just said "see you" !!
--> fucked up!

So i wrote her a nice funny text message when back, no romantic bullshit but including telling her she could call me to meet sunday. or monday if she wants.
But she answered this morning (the following day) a nice sms but no references with what i told her (asking for meeting).

But now i really feel weird, i wonder if we kissed in the mood of the eve, in club, and she doesnt care as i want more than just a "niteclub kiss" (shes hot as shit).

Got an opinion wheter this girl is a "niteclub bitch" or she's sincere and wants more?
Did in hapen to one of ya?

you got it "hin"?

dann biste wohl auch deutscher^^
wo wohnst du denn? in meine umfeld küssen sich normalerweise und auch nur manchmal mädchen auf die backe die sehr gut befreundet sind oder zu der sorte gehören die mit jeder auf beste freundin machen. im elsass is das so wie in restfrankreich mit der knutscherei, von daher kenn ich das eigentlich schon.

just incase you arent german afterall, i roughly said: where im from, girls only kiss eachother when theyre bffs and its not really everyday stuff but rather girly friendship bullshit, your statement about europe is a drastic generalization.