| I sense so much frustration from you man, you act like this girl is the only one on the planet. And thats exactly why your loosing the interaction right now! You always try to do your best, but women are very perceptive, when your trying they are running! So stop trying and just have fun,be your best self, and don't take weeks to kiss her or build that deep commitment.
I was in a similar situation when i first started years ago, where I knew this girl Ali, really beautiful model from Sydney, and i kept fucking around for weeks on end until she got a boyfriend.. but ill tell you a secrete which may hurt or promote you now, so listen up! A boyfriend really means nothing, women have them to not be desperate or needy, sometimes so they can interact with their friends and claim they are all that, and brag on about how their boyfriend is super hot. So its virtually nothing, don't worry about it, stick to being cool,confident, have fun with her take her out, tease and annoy her, and see where shes willing to go with you. Remember its all about where shes at in the interaction, and from experience if shes willing to go through attraction with you then shes attracted to you. But if she keeps cutting you off there then you will have to part ways.
You have to find exactly where you are, in the attraction phase, or the connection phase or just no where in general! You can best do this by talking to her, calling her up and scheduling a time out, make it something under the radar, maybe shopping in a big mall, or just rocking up to some place with interesting furniture and looking at whats around!
Thats where your at in my opinion, and I think your doing well, as you can realise that there is a problem, but now take the next step and solve it! if you cant, then don't beat yourself up about it, there are honestly far too many women out there to just dwell on one! And you have to become a person who can constantly pull out other options from his hat! never rely on just one woman, or it makes that chick the center of your life.. and no one wants that.
Hope that was helpful man, I don't post here much anymore!! best of luck!
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