So I met this girl and she is easily a HB10. I've done everything properly and kiss closed her on our first meeting and on our day 2 got a hand job and fingered her. Strangely though, I could of easily had sex with her but I was the one who wanted to take it slow. We then spent hours just laying in bed together talking and snuggling and all the mushy stuff. However, I think I've fallen for her. She is everything I want in a girl. When the topic of relationships came up we had a very serious discussion and she said she wanted to wait a few weeks and see where it goes but she doesn't want to jump into anything with me. She admitted she wanted to be with me but she just didn't want to rush it or miss out on something.

So now I don't know what to do. I don't know how to make her want me enough to make her want a relationship. I also don't know how to keep what we have now alive for the next few weeks. Help please!!!

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never seem desperate, and that u liker her more the she does u!!!! it would have also been better if you would have made a move on day 2!!! get a day3 and try to f close her.... if it fails--> try dating other girls!!!

Generate some jealousy.

I believe this is a situation where you can make the sale by announcing that it's a limited time offer, so be quick! Haha.

Show her how exciting the rest of your life is. Talk about other girls you know, eg. "I was walking on the beach with Janet, and we saw this dog, it was doing the cutest thing... ". Be unavailable cause you already agreed to meet with someone else. Etc.

Without making yourself sound like a player of course. All these girls are just friends, and you have a fun time. The goal is simply to let her know you have potential options, and girls who could "steal you away" while you are just innocently being friends with them.

dude just be you man. deff don't be too needy and text and call and email all the time, but if she wants to wait and get a feel for how you two are then let her. I would suggest going out and getting laid a couple times in the process, but caution be to thee that do. I do the same thing that she is doing honestly. I always give it a couple weeks just to make sure there aren't any major things that could mess up a commitment like that. If you are impatient though, make yourself valuable. Tell her you might be willing to wait a week or two but that you can't just put your life on hold for her like that. Always be gentle in these situations tho, especially if its a girl you don't want to lose.

PB41

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I just want to add that I've had great relationships starting with sex on the first day, it is not a bad thing for a relationship.
If you both feel comfortable just DO IT.
You might have lost her attention because she felt rejected, you need to make her feel appreciated without you coming off as desperate.
For example, give her attention be cocky funny about it.
You'll get her back don't worry!

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