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A Sticking Point or SP is an issue you CONSISTENTLY run into.

It is NOT a point where you get stuck with ONE SPECIFIC GIRL.

A Sticking Point is:
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I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
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I got LMR with this one girl! What do I do?
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If you have not already gone out and practiced enough to have a real Sticking Point from meeting an ABUNDANCE of women, YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO POST HERE.



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PostPosted: Fri Sep 04, 2009 5:26 am 
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so i was at the club tonight. HBs everywhere. im a fairly popular guy so i knew a lot of people however i have approach anxiety, if one of my friends is talking to them i can go up and talk but just opening is difficult for me, especially in the club where its SO loud. i dont know many openers to begin with and dont really feel comfortable enough to be half yelling them. im very new to PU and need all the help i can get. any advice u can give me is appreciated.


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PostPosted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 12:08 am 
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One thing I have tried once or twice in club where the music is loud, once you have their eye contact of a girl, smile or wink then beckon them over to you, I've tried it out a couple of times and works when you're doing it playfully and not telling them directly what to do. if she doesn't come straightaway but keeps eye contact or beckons you to her, point to her then yourself then to a beer bottle so you're tellin her to get you a drink. remember to smile or you'll weird them out. Then as soon as she responds, point to your ear and shrug as though you can't hear them,

It has worked for me from time to time however only if they are not engaged in doing anything else, for example in a conversation or dancing. But if they're basically being idle or part of a conversation group but not 'in it' then it should be good.


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PostPosted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 6:12 am 
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only problem is the big Ts on my hands...it sucks! if i could drink i would have less problems approaching. but its prolly good i cant cuz i wont use alcohol as a crutch now


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PostPosted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 7:49 am 
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For club game I almost always use Mehow Method, because he designed it for loud places, where you just won't able to use opener routines or anything similar, research him, it will help you :)

Ex of his opener would be, and also my favorite: "You guys seem soooo fun/chill (framing them however you want right away)...you are like the funnest/chillest girls I have met....okay in like the last 30 seconds, don't get all excited.....+ (false time constrain) --> continue into Attracton

V3nu :twisted:


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