Ok im currently a freshman in college. first semester and this Friday i meet a girl (we'll call her HB9) through her roommate (she's an old friend gets a 5) i end up taking out the HB9 to some start of school dance and we're having a great time. im running some of the best game of my life. when we go back to her room i start playing guitar for her and her roommate. then we start watching movies and im snuggling up with HB9. When her roommate falls asleep we start making out and she grabs for it, 6 orgasms follow (in about 2 and a half hours. it hurt to walk the next day ).

And then it gets a little weird.


HB9 starts talking about how i should take out her roommate (while her hand is on my cock), because she is apparently infatuated with me. That's where i am for the first time, in a long time, speechless. i told her no, after figuring out that she really just said that. we keep hooking up and in the morning, she tries to convince me to wash her sheets. I told her she was quite the silly goose and she told me i couldn't tell anyone what happened because she doesn't want to let her roommate find out. we chat a little more until i leave at like 6:30 am.

Day 2

HB9, her roommate, me and my good friend all get together for dinner. HB9 is making little innocent comments that have stuff to do with the previous night and smiling at me (Obvious IoI). Then later on she starts talking to me about how i need to take out her roommate.. (once again im confused. i think she feels like a bitch for going behind her back and she's trying to make up for it.) i end up saying no again. then as we're about to leave i get her number and this is the text conversation.

phone convo

me : hey who's that cute guy sitting next to you at the pizza place?? =P
HB9 : Ha speaking of pizza, u guys left urs here
me : I'm gonna need to get that back from you!! ha
Hb9 : wen r u gonna ask (roommate) out
me: I can't do that i see her as nothing more then a friend. I dont want to hurt her.
HB9:i dnt wana hurt her eithr bt she rlly likes u, it'd make her day.
me: do you understand how this works? lol if i date (roommate) or give her anymore reason to like me, then she's going to get way more hurt then if i didnt play were her emotions and just told her i dont like her.
HB9: Geez... idk wat to do then.
Me: why do you want me to take her out so bad?
HB9: cuz i wnt her to b happy... plz babe
Me: mmk it would end in tears. she would be happy for the moment but miserable for longer. its not worth it.
HB9: i dnt c how bt sweet dreams.
Me: sweet dreams baby.




ok recap

wtf? i know she's still attracted to me, but she's trying to set me up with another girl that i honestly see as a sister type. i do like this girl (HB9) the night i spent with her was amazing before the hooking up and it just got better from there =P.

do you think she's crazy and i should scoot out? or should i try for a relationship and hope she's not crazy and just felt like a bitch for going behind her roommate's back. that if i went on a date with her roommate, it would make it okay and she wouldn't feel like such a bad person anymore.

any comments on how crazy she is are more then welcome as well. =P

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Itcha Boi Nemo!

You're getting lost in the content of her words instead of thinking about the reason behind them. Right away when she has your cock in her hands and suddenly says "please date your friend" that seemed pretty obvious to me that she's conflicted inside, but it's exceedingly obvious at the point in your text conversation, the moment you mentioned meeting up again "I'm going to have to get the pizza off you!" she replies with "When are you gonna ask your friend out" - the content of her reply has nothing to do with the content of your last reply (pizza, dating your friend - connection? nothing).

What you guys actually said there was - You: We should get together again, cause you'll probably give me another hand job. Her: I think it would be a better idea if you go date your friend.

The fact that she's giving you IOI's but then is coming up with crap about you needing to date your friend, just tells me she's conflicted inside about this. My first thought is that you haven't given her enough of the comfort phase. You guys went and did nasty stuff too soon for her, she's got buyers remorse. She's so attracted to you she's gone through with it, but now she's feeling bad about it.

ahh mmk. do you think its too late to work on the comfort? or is the whole situation too far gone?

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Itcha Boi Nemo!

get her friend a different guy or take her out and give her the LJBF speech

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I believe it's not too late, from the sounds of your last report it sounds like she still likes hanging out with you. In my mind you have a bit of buffer time right now where she's still excited about you cause you're new and will be attracted to you for a little while in spite of other things making her feel awkward. That's what she's trying to deal with right now - being attracted to you but feeling bad about it.

My first thought is something along the lines of Jaybot's post, whatever you do you have to give her the feeling that you aren't just out to get into her pants. I think the perfect scenario for you is if she tries to flirt with you or tries to get physical and you turn it down in a friendly way. Still be attractive to her - funny, friendly, but not out for sex. She would go nuts. Then you probably should start showing interest in her personality, interests, etc. do things in a way that shows how your lives compliment each other, and then tell her you're drawn to her (don't have to give reasons, just use feeling type words that you can't explain)

I can't give you the exact instructions but you have to show her that you two can be boyfriend and girlfriend, by the way you consider her feelings, remembering things she likes, doing fun stuff together other than sex, etc.