Hi guys,

I met a girl on holidays, she was totally in to me and we had fun for a couple of days with some kissing involved I'd rate her as a 7 or 8 if need be... Now I really want to see her again which is definately possible... but this can only happen after a month or so, so there is some time to pass. We're chatting happily and so on although there is one thing which is bugging me:

It seems that all the efforts come from me. I always initiate conversations... She doesn't seem too eager to give me priority over her other activities, so only when her regular chat hours come so to say she'll talk to me. Now I think I've been a little too eager with expressing my thoughts But she still would like to see me, I just think that I'm kinda in some semi friend zone until I can get there and win her over for real again. She did however remove her photo's online with her ex-boyfriend and put me / us on it. Makes me think I'm not totally lost.

So my question after this wall of text, how can I spice this up? Should I simply not initiate conversations until she does? I'm affraid that would result in almost no talking anymore and a lost of interest. I think I need something good, maybe something playful? The 1 month waiting is absolutely no problem to me, last time I kissed except with her has been 2 years (she doesn't know that and I'm good enough looking to let her suspect differently )

Any help would be appreciated, a lot!

Cheers,
Kymos

well if i were u, i wouldnt initiate every chat.... let it be a 50-50.... maybe u also have a different medium to talk to her : phone, SPAM...

but she is definatley into u if she did with the pictures what u said.. so keep up the contact for the month
happy gaming
king

Thanks for the listen and the reply man! I've one of her friends online who's telling me she's waiting for me to initiate contact with her! I just don't understand that, why doesn't she initiate... get the reply from her: Girls... I'll never reach 50-50 that way but I'll try. Also trying to set her up with SPAM.

And I'm kicking myself when I am thinking too obsessed, doing my own ambitions in the meantime, that helps a lot!

Thanks m8