I have a problem with pulling off a day 2 with girls who ive met at parties. Im pretty sure that theyre attracted/interested in me and im pretty sure my problem is that i come across as too desperate in text messages and facebook messages etc. How do i get over being or coming across as desperate? How the hell do i get a day 2?!?

In a word, "Comfort." The key to getting day 2s with girls is proper comfort buidling techniques.

It sounds like you have attraction which is half the battle. She is attracted to you and likes you that sort of thing. BUT...

She likes and is attracted to a lot of guys. She has to get to know YOU, and be comfortable with YOU before you'll get a day 2. She has to know that you two are going to be able to sit down and have a normal fun conversation without things getting awkward. She needs to learn a bit about who you are.

If you really need to dig into this I have a lengthy article on my blog about it. http://jsmooth26.blogspot.com/2009/02/b ... rt_25.html

Once she is attracted to you. Then also knows you two actually have a connection and can sit down and talk like normal people then it'll come. She also has to know when she sits down with you that she's not going to be constantly pressured for sex or making out as well. Just an FYI.

When you are in your first interaction you should make a solid effort to build attraction. Then spend a good 15-20 min building comfort with her in field. Then instead of just getting a # or whatever. Ask for the date then! Have a few places preplanned to go already. She is the hottest on you she is going to be, you just met and swept her off her feet. Ask for the date know and getting more day 2s will be easier. Make sure the date is within a few days from when you met.

When you ask for the date, you're going to get a # so that you can just make a simple call to confirm later. This will stop you from having to go through the other stuff you were talking about. Now all you have to do is make a simple call or send a quick text to confirm she can make it.

Anyways, this is the key to this. A lot of guys have issues with this and once its resolved...its ON!

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