Ok, I need some help with this. My brother and I went out to the strip club on Friday for fun. My brother is more of the typical AFC type, where I have a bit of game. We're at the club and he's looking and tipping occasionally but I'm laughing with him but leaning back drinking my drink. Playing it cool.

Anyway, a nice HB8 stripper approaches and says Hi but I know this is normal for them to introduce so I said "Sup" with coolness. She smiles, sits down at our table, and I wind up chatting it up with her for about 15 mins. She was throwing serious IOIs at me but I was using what I know about the game. Making her qualify herself, making her lean in - the whole 9. She only got up because it was her turn to dance.

When she came back, she gave a little "show" for me at the table when one of her stripper came over. Kissing and pretending to munch each other at my table but I smirked but was not phased and whispered to her after that she has a little bit skill and quickly changed the subject on her to some non-sexual stuff. About 5 minutes later (in the middle of great rapport) I told her that me and my bro had to cut because we had this party to get to. I told her to give me her e-mail address (should have made her give me the number) and told her I would hit her up. She gave it to me but asked if I really was going to e-mail her. I told her that she'll have to wait and see. She smiled, hugged me, and then I left.

Problem is that I e-mailed her the next afternoon (Saturday) and said:

"Hey, Ms. S. As I said, I was surprised at how interesting you are. Was not expecting that. We will hang out sometime in the next few days but know that my schedule is a bit crazy so no promises, k? For now, tell me some more crazy things about you that I might need to know. Until then, lil girl."

I also left my number when I signed the e-mail. So, now that it's Monday, I need to know 2 things: One, could I have gamed her better; and two, what should I do next? I do live with the abundance theory but just want to fix the kinks of my game.

Thanks guys.

I think the only play now is to wait for her response- either a call or an email back. To call or email her again would be way too needy. I think you played it fine in the club, but your email did sound a little clingy.

see what happens.

I guess you could always run into her at the club again and neg her flaking.

Yep wait for her response i must congratulate you on how well you seemed to do.

Thanks fellas for the advice! Is there anything I could have done differently for the next time I go to another club? What are some things you have done that works?

Thanks again.

The fact about strippers is they are there to get your money so there is never a bitch shield with a stripper so it might sometimes be hard to know what you are doing wrong and what you are doing right